First time having sex and im not hard enough..wtf!? confused.com

[JBfashion]

seriously dudes.
i wapped the condom one got inside her
for lyk 30 seconds
then i just flopped to a semi..isnt this supposed to happen to 50 year olds?
not 18 year olds??
she was an 8..wasnt lyk i was unnatttracted to her :S
any input people wud lyk to give wud be gold.
help me rationalise this.
thanks.

[Voytech]

Originally Posted by JBfashion

seriously dudes.
i wapped the condom one got inside her
for lyk 30 seconds
then i just flopped to a semi..isnt this supposed to happen to 50 year olds?
not 18 year olds??
she was an 8..wasnt lyk i was unnatttracted to her :S
any input people wud lyk to give wud be gold.
help me rationalise this.
thanks.

If you don't have a problem getting hard in other situations, ie. masturbating , than you don't have the same problem alot of 50 year olds do. If that's the case all you can do is try to relax and enjoy. If that is not the case, go see a doctor.

[Rusty7]

You lie on your back, tell her to blow you and put the condom on. Then fuck her..

I wont tell you how to fuck.

[Amorphous]

Relax man, happens to mad people in the beginning. Just chill out.

[Rusty7]

I was actually quite serious with my post. It relaxes you, makes you sure that she's comfortable with your body (A little self-esteme boost), and she gets the job done. I always tell my one-nighters to blow me and put the condom on, and they do it happily.

[KennyBaby]

This happens all the time haha, especially if it's the second or third time that day. If you have a semi, push it in there and youll get hard in a second, if it's complete flopper, play it off and keep kissing her, massaging whatever, and give it a shot in a minute

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by JBfashion

seriously dudes.
i wapped the condom one got inside her
for lyk 30 seconds
then i just flopped to a semi..isnt this supposed to happen to 50 year olds?
not 18 year olds??
she was an 8..wasnt lyk i was unnatttracted to her :S
any input people wud lyk to give wud be gold.
help me rationalise this.
thanks.

Spell check, do you use it?


To answer your question: you're worrying, first time, don't sweat it.

Next time, have more foreplay.

[SPM101]

Don't eat fast food. Start exercising. Fast food causes plack (sp but the other way sounds like a disease) to build in your arteries and prevent blood to run properly. Once I stopped eating unhealthy and started bodybuilding, girls call me cement cuz i stay so hard lmao

[dhies]

Originally Posted by spm101

don't eat fast food. Start exercising. Fast food causes plack (sp but the other way sounds like a disease) to build in your arteries and prevent blood to run properly. Once i stopped eating unhealthy and started bodybuilding, girls call me cement cuz i stay so hard lmao

very true!

[Kungfusion]

Haha, Same problem. I officially had sex for the first time about 3 days ago and we started with heavy foreplay. I think I was just thinking too much about routines and what to do next. I was using a method I call "Rough-Sensitive" And I kept thinking about what to do next. I was trying to feign experience.

She got on top first and I was fine. Then I wanted to move to a diff position so I asked her to. By the time I got to the second pozish i was rocking a raging semi-wood. And it didnt help that I had trouble getting a single finger into her. She is tight as hell.

But there could have been any number of variables that caused this problem. Could have been comfort, desire, nervousness, lack of feeling (condom), your mind simply wandering, or you may be a sociopath like me. No way to tell without doing the dirty yourself.

-Kungfusion