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08-24-2008, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by jarryd09 So true dude. so true.
I lost it at 18, and I remember I got SUPER, super drunk. DONT DO THAT. the sex was horrible. after that I just didn't want to embarass myself to another woman. So this is what I did.
I stopped thinking about having sex. I waited until she brought it up, then we did it.
Haha but lemme tell you man, you're gonna squirt within the first 30 seconds guarenteed the first time you lose it :P But don't worry, go for round 2
After having sex so many times (and guys, you can probably relate), it's not a big deal anymore. sex is sex. big whoop. seriously. you'll feel that way too soon enough. and once you have that mindset, you'll easily talk to girls, and game will be easy  | wrong, YOU came after 30 seconds. I lasted 2 hours, or.. we went on for two hours before she had to leave for the bus.. Now I last for about an hour  | 
08-24-2008, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by dasb00t wrong, YOU came after 30 seconds. I lasted 2 hours, or.. we went on for two hours before she had to leave for the bus.. Now I last for about an hour  | yo i totally did after 30 seconds the first time i had sex. but it's not uncommon, at all. its pretty common for guys to blow it real fast on their first. Hour sounds about right for me as well. I read somewhere the average guy lasts only 7 minutes  sucks to be him.
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08-25-2008, 09:08 AM
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| | | HA HA! My first time I didn't even get off.
I was quite literally shaking. I lost my boner even....I was embarrassed but just kinda went with it. | 
08-25-2008, 11:01 AM
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| | | what the hell is sex with ugly women? i mean i even don't want sex with a girl that's not my gf as you can have sex all the time but it's the important thing with WHO you have sex....and with gf it's way better than with an ug.......u better get a bitch over ya house and get things up...... | 
08-25-2008, 11:14 AM
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| | | What you got do is be more sexual with girls from when you meet them, if you see thing are going well inved her to your place, dont be shy to ask...you will be surprised how many will go. If they ask what you want to do say: sex with a straight face. If you are comfortable, they will follow you.
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08-27-2008, 02:50 AM
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| | | The point is that it has been close, so it's just a matter of it getting closer, keep meeting women, and the situation will come up for it to happen.
If you have high standards AND you are dating girls that meet those standards, why are you going to lower them with someone that might be a great girl but not as attractive as you'd like, telling her what she wants to hear, and then when you're done, trying to get rid of her?
Online dating can be like shooting fish in a barrel but the results are definitely mixed. If you're a the "I'll f- anything that moves as long as I get rid of my virginity", that would be the place to go.
As far as hookers go, it's a business transaction that happens to involve sex. You could DLV yourself if it ever came out, but it serves its purpose. A lot of 8s-10s have done escort work. Quote:
Originally Posted by Player2670 So I'm a virgin. I'm 19 years old, and I've kissed tons of girls, but I've just never had sex. I'm turning 20 in January in 2009. Before then I just have to loose it. Where are the easiest places to get laid?
I just so want to loose my virginity before I'm 20. I'm not a looser or anything and I don't know the reasons why I haven't done it. I don't blame anyone, but myself. It's been close sometimes, and I've got some BJ's by a girl when I was 17.
Methods I was thinking about:
-Online dating (heard that's pretty easy)
-Lower my standards (so far I've been having pretty high standards).
Wouldn't be easier to fuck some less hotter girls? I mean I'll just do it once. By the way hookers is not an alternative. | | 
08-27-2008, 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted by jarryd09 yo i totally did after 30 seconds the first time i had sex. but it's not uncommon, at all. its pretty common for guys to blow it real fast on their first. Hour sounds about right for me as well. I read somewhere the average guy lasts only 7 minutes  sucks to be him. | Its not that common, don't kid yourself. | 
08-27-2008, 10:07 AM
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| | | Don't worry about the virginity crap man — I lost mine last night and if there's one thing I learned it's that sex is nothing like what it's cracked up to be. I was so damn bored by the time I was 10 minutes into the deed; plus I ended up getting myself off in the end because the women I'm with don't seem to be able to. I think lots of beer also contributed to my problem in this case, but there were other times when I was sober when I still couldn't.
It was an experience, glad I had it, but shit — now I feel like all that time anticipating was like… wtf, this is nothing. I feel like that Extramask guy from "The Game". Finally has sex and is appalled by how damn lame it is.
So, you aren't missing a whole lot. Don't worry about the 'virginity' thing. I finally lost mine at age 20 and I'm no better off than I was before. | 
08-28-2008, 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Lucretius Don't worry about the virginity crap man — I lost mine last night and if there's one thing I learned it's that sex is nothing like what it's cracked up to be. | It gets better with time when you learn to enjoy it and relax and just do whatever it is you want. | 
08-28-2008, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Voytech It gets better with time when you learn to enjoy it and relax and just do whatever it is you want. | I hope so. I found it so boring I wanted to stop because it wasn't even fun. For now, I prefer the touch of my right hand. Which is good because now this whole "Game" isn't a big deal to me like... at all. The end result doesn't feel as good as something I can give to myself anytime I want it! I feel rather liberated. |  | | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode |
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