Being Aggressive in bed...

[redhead]

Originally Posted by Xadus

I need to know how to be aggressive...not how to choke a bitch. i can do that. lol
i need to be aggressive...im not naturally an aggressive person. help!

X

all you do is tell her GET ON BITCH! ROLL OVER BITCH! TURN AROUND BITCH! etc. just do it really hard. remember she wanted you to be aggressive then all you can is just to do her REALLY HARD. It's work on me.

[CMPitts]

"She has been Raped by 5 different guys"

man what the fuck is that about? IMO i think you should find another girl who isnt so 'damaged'... besides you dont want her projecting those guys onto her image of you, which could lead to bad news..

[Xadus]

She says she trusts me 100% to not hurt her like they did...but i still need to be aggressive.

[MAG!C]

Originally Posted by Xadus

MY current girlfriend tells me she wants me to be more aggressive in bed...but I honestly do not know how to do that. She likes to be told what to do...moved into the position i want her in...those things but I can't do it. Don't know why,
I just know that i cant do it.

Advice would be great...just let me know.

X

I can only tell you one thing... LISTEN TO YOUR GIRL!
Actually.. You know what... It is quite easy to tell you the truth, there is a position which requires decent strengh in arms, but well worth it. After you done it, your girlfriend will go and call all her friends after the sex, GURANTEED.

You know when a girl runs up to you, gives you a hug, and her legs go around you? So her crotch, and your crotch are sorta on the same level. Well now imagine.. Cloths off, and you are boning her like that. Her arms are around your neck, your hands are on her ass cheecks. Drilling her.

Then walk up to the wall, slam her back againts it and keep going at it (When you get tired from holding her)

They fucking LOVE IT. And takes very little effort.


BUT!

Also a cool thing is to tie her up.

Here is a link
http://www.youtube.com/user/2KnottyBoys

40% of the time I have sex, I use ropes.
Tie that crazy hoe up, so she is hopeless, start spanking her a bit, slapping her cheecks. Then take a feather and slowly and gently start going around her body (especially her ribcage, crotch area, feet, armpits, arms, neck)

She'll go bananas. Then as she is died up, start fucking her.
Sick shit man. GIRLS WILL NEVER FORGET IT.
I promise you that. PINKY PROMISE

[ur2nice2me]

Well I'm not a friend of huring her, so here is what I recommend (Since I heard this as well she likes domant men in bed):

Move her as you need her,
short orders,
tight grip,
Mysterys hair pulling,
Hold her wrists above her head / behind her neck when doing her

However I also have my sensitive nights with her when I give her goosefleshy skin, tongue her, make love for hours...

The mastery I did not make yet is, to read her mind what turns her on most that night.

[Doesit]

man wtf has you gotten into????

[ibrox]

Hey, ease up there all you Wayne Brady's...

[FemmeFatale]

Originally Posted by Xadus

MY current girlfriend tells me she wants me to be more aggressive in bed...but I honestly do not know how to do that. She likes to be told what to do...moved into the position i want her in...those things but I can't do it. Don't know why,
I just know that i cant do it.

Advice would be great...just let me know.

X

Please dont choke your girlfriend.. start of slow first.. and if she keeps responding then you can coke her.
How to be aggressive...basically you physically push her against the wall(not TOO hard but body handle her).. when you're having sex , stay in control, if you want her doggy style, bend her over yourself instead of asking her to hop off, slap her bum.. then you can see the thread under "Dirty talk" and use a few of those lines to see how she responds.

[FemmeFatale]

Originally Posted by MAG!C

I can only tell you one thing... LISTEN TO YOUR GIRL!
Actually.. You know what... It is quite easy to tell you the truth, there is a position which requires decent strengh in arms, but well worth it. After you done it, your girlfriend will go and call all her friends after the sex, GURANTEED.

You know when a girl runs up to you, gives you a hug, and her legs go around you? So her crotch, and your crotch are sorta on the same level. Well now imagine.. Cloths off, and you are boning her like that. Her arms are around your neck, your hands are on her ass cheecks. Drilling her.

Then walk up to the wall, slam her back againts it and keep going at it (When you get tired from holding her)

They fucking LOVE IT. And takes very little effort.


BUT!

Also a cool thing is to tie her up.

Here is a link
YouTube - 2KnottyBoys's Channel

40% of the time I have sex, I use ropes.
Tie that crazy hoe up, so she is hopeless, start spanking her a bit, slapping her cheecks. Then take a feather and slowly and gently start going around her body (especially her ribcage, crotch area, feet, armpits, arms, neck)

She'll go bananas. Then as she is died up, start fucking her.
Sick shit man. GIRLS WILL NEVER FORGET IT.
I promise you that. PINKY PROMISE

I agree, that is hot.

[Nikeforged]

I don't think choking is as taboo as some of you think it is. Choking is a bad name however, I grab my girls neck strong and firm but I don't excerpt much clamping pressure. She just holds onto my hands hard while I'm grabbing and I totally let her have it hard for a couple minutes. She just squirms and makes noises that I know my neighbor hears.

I pull her arms towards myself when we have sex facing each other, me sitting and her laying down. Just hard enough that it doesn't make her uncomfortable. But again hard.

Grabbing hair firmly works wonders as well. I find it just helps her get into the mind frame this particular girl likes. She's very sexual and inhibited, god I love young women.

I actually need some more advice on the subject but I thought I'd drop in my 2 cents..