You are not getting me... 1. the urination thing was just an explanation on how to locate the muscles NOT an exercise. 2. The information from the internet and sex books distorted the information by telling you that the pc muscles are the muscles that raise your penis when it is erect, when infact the pc and Ic muscles are found around your anus. It is the BC muscles which raise and lower your penis. So anal contractions which does NOT involve raising and lowering of your penis ,but making your penis soft by doing the anal clenches ARE the correct exercises. With this method after a few months it will feel as though energy is moving up your back to your head. The difference between the BC muscle and the proper pc muscle clench is the BC muscle raises your penis and the pc muscles clench the muscles around your anus. You can isolate the muscles around your genital area the main 2 is the PC and BC muscles. Many people have done this myself included.
You know what just keep doing the pc exercises you are used to, (the ones that you isolate when you raise and lower your erect penis). and see what it does to you.
As I stated before you may not come quick during masterbation but you will during penetration and when every 3 seconds you wil have to stop and clench the pc muscles it will get annoying. By just holding a slight reverse kegel you can go on indefinitely and then you can use the anal clench to move orgasmic energy away from your genitals and have orgasms without cumming. This does not involve any slowing down,stopping, or changing positions when you get at an advance level. I have been doing the pc muscle exercises that are reccommended by the internet and sex books they do increase the hardness and the power of your orgasm but they still make you come faster. But if you find your method to be working for you so be it. You know where to come if anything goes wrong (pun intended) and you need information to last longer.
P.S. I up for the meditation thing to reduce anxiety but thinking of a calming lake during vigorous monkey sex can put you out of the moment. |