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wocked · #1 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 10:56 AM

quick backstory: I'm a 22 year old virgin. I'm in my first serious relationship. We've done everything but sex (she wants to wait until we go on our trip to Montreal at the end of the month). She's had sex in the past.

We usually do oral at the end of dates. I've been able to make her cum everytime but when it's my turn, she can't finish me off. I'm chalking it up to nervousness but I can tell she's getting upset. Her technique is really good (it feels great). I just can't seem to climax.

Any advice?

Vapor · #2 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 11:10 AM

Normal. Some guys don't come from oral, or don't come from oral the way some girls do it. NBD.

chris3 · #3 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 01:32 PM

I have the same problem but I wank off far to much. If you don't cum for five to seven days before you stick it in her mouth should improve your chances

Breaking · #4 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 01:50 PM

dont think my man.. it makes you nervous our body works together.. dont think my man relax and let it come hahahaha

wocked · #5 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 06:59 PM

thanks for the reassurance. I know it's not a big deal. I'm just worried that it'll happen during sex but I guess psyching myself out like this isn't helping either.

OV_Legend · #6 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 09:40 PM

dude it takes something really special for a girl to get me off form oral......trust me you won't have that problem with sex hahahahah!!!!

*Voytech* · #7 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 01:20 AM

Tell her to use her hand as well. For example tell her to use her hand for 1 min then go oral, then do both, etc. Use your body to tell her when she's doing it right.

GABBO · #8 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Vapor

Normal. Some guys don't come from oral, or don't come from oral the way some girls do it. NBD.

Heck some guys can't even cum while haveing sex or even after sex,
When i had sex on saturday night, i came the first time, but the 2nd time we lasted 2hours i did'nt cum she came twice but i did'nt. And again in the mourning we had sex roughly 1 and a 1/2 hours and again i did'nt cum but she did once.

I used this Tech to get her to cum and have her whole body shake

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|RedTube - Orgasm School

(if you can do that a chick will do almost anything to please you

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I would'nt worry about not cumming, i've never cum from Oral b4, and with the new girl i'm sleeping with i told her she has to give me a BJ until i blow lol she agreed. And of course i'll do the same for her

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GAT0R · #9 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 11:32 AM

Have you tried watchin porn durin oral so your mind is stimulated more?