So is the scare over yet? Has she gotten her period again or do you still have reason to be worried? Because if the scare's not over and you want to convince her to have sex with you, that's pretty fucked up.
How responsible have you two been about sex together? Are you using condoms every time?
A pregnancy scare is a big shock to anyone. You yourself should be a bit shaken up by it. What she's experiencing is not unique to a girl who's just lost her virginity or even to females. Someone close to me (yes, male) had more than a pregnancy scare. His girlfriend fell pregnant, but miscarried. He was extremely cautious after that. I think he will be that way for years to come.
Give her time. She doesn't feel like having sex at the moment because she's just been slapped in the face with the possible consequences of her actions. It doesn't mean she's not still attracted to you, but in those few days in which her period wasn't there, she's been thinking, "Oh my god, what if I'm pregnant. What will I do? Will I have the child? Will I have an abortion? Will tepthatass support me in my decision? Will he stick around? If I keep it, I won't be able to continue my studies/work/etc..."
You're being incredibly selfish here. Just be patient with her at the moment. | 
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