uncomfortable with her body? - The Attraction Forums

dasb00t · #1 (**permalink**) 08-10-2008, 09:04 AM

What do I do when the girl I'm having sex with is uncomfortable with her body? Yeah, she has a little body fat, but not much. When we were done and I put the lights on to find some clothes she immediately held some clothes in front of her stomach.. I noticed this at once, and I sat down on my bed(she was standing in front of it) and I kissed her tattoo which is right below her stomach. I kinda pushed her hands away(which she held in front of the stomach) so she would see I noticed her stomach and did not care about it.. Even tough it would be nicer with that fat gone :P What do you guys suggest?

TakeMyBreathAway · #2 (**permalink**) 08-10-2008, 11:34 AM

Just keep on doing stuff like that, you did great. Show that your comfortable with her body and complimate on how beautiful it is every now and again, but mostly show it in your actions towards her body.

sampanye · #3 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 03:33 AM

Girls are far more critical of their own bodies than guys are (about female bodies, I mean). I could launch into an endless tirade about media images and the desire to be 'perfect', but most of us have heard it all before.

Even a girl who you think is damn perfect may feel insecure about her own body. It's about her self-perception and it usually doesn't have much basis in reality.

Your response was great. The more you encourage her to believe that she's hot just as she is, the better she will feel about herself. You're in a privileged position to boost her confidence. And when a girl's comfortable in her body and feels confident, she tends to also be more liberated in bed, so you reap the rewards.

Tell her the bits of her body you LOVE and pretend the thought that she might have a little belly fat has never once crossed your mind.