 Post Coital Techniques
This was a response to someone else's post in general questions, but thought it might belong here. I'm often wrong.
I did the post coital questions more when I was an AFC trying to understand for myself, but after an F-close with a particularly hot HB I like to ask them:
"When did you first think we'd sleep together?" I follow this with a joke her being horny so quickly.
Since ASF, I have found this time valuable for setting the tone for the entire relationship. Now, I using steering questions like this:
Potential FB:
"That was amazing." Don't ask her if it was good for her or whatever BS. Its stupid and girls hate that. DO NOT ASK HER if she CAME. The most AFC sexual thing you can do. Saying that was amazing reinforces the quality in her mind, and does wonders for helping her libido escape. You're not asking if it was good, you're telling her it was. Make sure it is so you don't sound retarded though.
"What's your middle name?" Or something else that reinforces the lack of comfort (its ok now). You've reinforced the quality of sex, and you can start the transition to friends who fuck
"What would you be doing right now if you hadn't seduced me?" Two things are going on here. You're reinforcing that fucking you is the best thing she could have been doing, and you're making it seem like you're the one who was seduced.
That's a few things I use to develop FB's
Reinforcing the ONS:
Usually an ONS is a girl who doesn't meet my overall requirements but still satisfies my desires for that night based on her attitude or whatever. Maybe she's just too unstable overall.
"Wow, I can't believe that just happened." Conversation. She'll try to agree about how crazy it is.
"Is your real name" Again, reinforcing that you really don't know eachother.
"That was fun." Not more, not less. IT was a good time.
"I can't believe we were so bad!" She keeps her ego in tact, you keep yours. You've pushed her away enough, without insulting her. You were both bad. You both don't really know eachother. But its ok, just not to be mistaken as something more.
Potential LTR:
Again, the "That was Amazing line", and the reasons don't change.
When did you first think we'd make it this far, or something related. You've gone a distance, when did she know it would go at least that far?
Serious Comfort Talk, Call it C4, although I think that might mean dynamite. Talk about her ambitions, relate them to your ambitions. I find this the best way to talk about my ambitions anways without seeming like I'm qualifying. Here you can hit some deep topics, but don't ignore her. NikatNaut would refer to it as proactive I believe. You're setting the pretext for something deeper, but you have to be aware of reclassifying her. Don't predict a future together, even a day later. Just talk to her about life or whatever. Don't freak her out about going AFC and talking about how much you like her or what's going to happen in the future. The most would be to talk about movies and plan to see a movie that's coming out.  | 
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