So my girlfriend... - The Attraction Forums

KennyBaby · #1 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 12:05 PM

....wants to bring another man, or men, into our... relationship....

I'm not entirely against the idea (I'm straight, 100%, but I also have a porn addiction that makes the idea more reasonable), I just have no idea how to approach the situation. I can't ask my friends... can I?

And before you ask, she told me that if I can find a girl whose down, she's down.

HBforme · #2 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 12:22 PM

I would NEVER bring a man even if it's like double penetration or whatever you're still feeling that shit and i wouldn't want my girl suckin some dudes dick....maybe if i was hammered at some party i'd double team some hottie with a friend and make a joke out of it but one would deff have to be gettin head and the other having sex

a women on the other hand ....look hard man, you've just been introduced to something amazing

cagalindo · #3 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 12:57 PM

tell her to find a guy
and u find a chick

Phateless · #4 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 02:11 PM

Hate to break it to you but this brings all sorts of crazy jealousy issues. It's unlikely that your relationship will survive this...

Do you want to be with this girl long term?

oreilly81 · #5 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 02:23 PM

I would go for the devils threeway (2 dudes..thank you Barney from How I Met Your Mother), in exchange for a threeway with two women, just so its even. Its cool you're down with the idea. As for asking your friends, its an idea. I know some guys like the idea of them and their friend(s) with a girl, so its one option. Me, personally, I would prefer a guy that I didn't know, but thats just me.

If you are looking to use one of your friends, play it cool. Be like "So my girlfriend wants to bring another guy into the bedroom. What do you think of that?" and then just feel it out and go from there.

Recluse · #6 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 04:47 PM

Sounds outrageous. I would leave her in a heartbeat.

JumpingFromPlanes · #7 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 07:03 PM

Go with your guy reaction.

azmodan · #8 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 07:16 PM

lol, this is one of those things that is so explosive i don't want to actually give you any advice.

you could go through with it, get jealousy issues from either you or your lady friend, and have it ruin the relationship. or, you could have a really good time and be having more girl-girl-you threesomes than i ever dreamed of.

i mean, i wouldn't want to see my girl with another guy, but i have no idea how you feel about that, so i really don't know what to tell you. i would also rarely bump into this situation because i tend to attract either socially conservative girls or girls who pretend to be socially conservative, but are really closet sluts.

sampanye · #9 (**permalink**) 07-28-2008, 09:42 PM

Everyone has their own personal feelings and gut reaction to this situation. If you're ok with bringing another guy into it, cool. But be sure to think about the longer term consequences this will have on your relationship. Do you want to be with this girl for a while? Will you REALLY be ok with seeing her with another guy's cock in her mouth? REALLY?!

Do not, I repeat DO NOT bring a friend of yours into this. How will it feel going out for beers with the boys and sitting next to the guy who fucked your girl... while you watched. (Maybe your balls slapped against each other?... who knows.) You don't want to stuff up a friendship. I would suggest you consider looking up someone online... someone who knows exactly what the deal is BEFORE you're all moving towards the bedroom together.