She wants me to be more aggressive

[spongerkid06]

So this girl likes to come over about once a week. Last time we started to get into it then she ended it because i wasnt aggressive enough and she "got over it" Any ideas???

[oreilly81]

I literally just cringed while reading your post. I mean, you're literally asking what being more aggressive in bed means. Thats just sad. Whats even more sad is that so many guys try to have soft tender sex with a woman, when that is almost never what they want. I don't think I have ever heard a woman complain that their man was too aggressive in bed (not to be confused with abusive) Most women I've had the experience with don't want to be "made love to". They want to be fucked. They want to be manhandled. They want to be dominated. And you, obviously, don't have what it takes to give that to her, so can you really blame her for ending it right in the middle?

[Phateless]

Sad, but true. Women don't want tenderness. They want to get fucked good. Save the tenderness for cuddling afterward.