she says shes it hurts when rubbing...

[dbmistry]

my gf says it hurts her when i rub her pussy and clit, ive tried to do it lightly but she can't get aroused and if i do it more she says it hurts, what can i do to get her goin? is this a mental thing or what else could it be?

[KennyBaby]

The number one rule is shut off the TV. No girl has ever cum with the tv on. Seriously tho, dont even touch her pussy until you've made out, kissed her neck, shoulders, boobs, stomach, thighs, feet if you can stand it. You need to get the rest of her warmed up, then go for the vag

[endo]

Like Kenny says, also you can use your mouth if it's still happening after a good "warm up", with lots of saliva as well. See if that helps.

[WhiteBlood]

Originally Posted by dbmistry

my gf says it hurts her when i rub her pussy and clit, ive tried to do it lightly but she can't get aroused and if i do it more she says it hurts, what can i do to get her goin? is this a mental thing or what else could it be?

I need some more detail, tell us exactly everything you're doing from the get-go.
For alot of women, touching the clit is much too senseitive, and you have to stimulate the 'glands' instead. Also, it could be dry, try using some lube, or your mouth.