Problem with giving Oral

[KennyBaby]

I need serious help guys... I was trying to go down on this girl I just started dating and it tasted horrible. I just couldn't do it. No bad odor, and I know she's a very clean person (we had very recently showered), but I she was very wet and I just couldn't stand the taste. She's willing to do ANYTHING for me, and I would love to be able to do this for her, and I just don't know what to do.

Any help or ideas would be golden

PS, yes, this was my first time going down on a girl, so im not sure what the normal "flavor" is

[endo]

Seeing as it's only your first time, man up and try again. It's one of those things that the more you do it, the more you like it. If you really can't go through with it, a couple of suggestions:

1. Get a hold of dental dams
2. I hear using body washes instead of soap products can help due to the lower Ph. Tell her to use these instead if she's soaping up. Honestly I don't think it makes much difference, man up!

[HumorUS]

i heard from some chicks that drinking dr pepper makes their vagina taste a bit "off"

[_Shift_]

Originally Posted by HumorUS

i heard from some chicks that drinking dr pepper makes their vagina taste a bit "off"

this calls for a FIELD TEST.

[ooranos]

Originally Posted by HumorUS

i heard from some chicks that drinking dr pepper makes their vagina taste a bit "off"

Dude, back in my AFC days I dated a girl who sustained herself exclusively on Coke and Fried Chicken. Needless to say her vagina tasted like toxic waste.

[hatedlove20]

Originally Posted by _Shift_

this calls for a FIELD TEST.

Weird. 0_0 My GF's favorite drink is dr. pepper and drinks it ALL THE TIME.

Her vajayjay tastes great tho....hmm

[_Shift_]

Originally Posted by hatedlove20

Her vajayjay tastes great tho....hmm

ah, that's my official word of the day.

i had a girl who was addicted to dr pep and i don't remember any strange taste or odors...

[sampanye]

Most likely, her vajayjay tastes completely normal. Yes, certain foods will make it more bitter/pungent (caffeine, alcohol, drugs, strong flavoured foods like garlic, etc). But if this is your first time going down on a girl, you're probably just not used to the taste.

Do you remember the first time you tasted coffee? Or beer? Chances are, you screwed up your little face and declared, "Ugh!" First time I tried red wine I ran into the bathroom and spat it out, then brushed my teeth in an attempt to get rid of the horrible taste. Now I consider a glass of merlot to be one of those great pleasures in life.

If we, as humans, can get used to and indeed ENJOY certain beverages which initially taste vile to us, then I'm absolutely certain that YOU can get used to something so natural as your girl's flavour. Man up and try again! Focus on how much she's enjoying it rather than thinking about the taste.

And just remember: there's nothing worse than receiving head when you know the guy you're with just isn't into it. NO HEAD is better than bad, reluctantly given head.

[_Shift_]

Originally Posted by sampanye

NO HEAD is better than bad, reluctantly given head.

yea, don't be like a cat drinking from a saucer, dive in n' get into it
she'll let loose alot easier if she feels like you're doing it because you really want to.

i've got my own lil question on the topic (hope you don't mind)
I've been with alot of girls that don't want to... they honestly don't want to... what are the self conscious about? because i've never had any complaints... but some just don't want my face anywhere near their vajayjay

[sampanye]

Originally Posted by _Shift_

I've been with alot of girls that don't want to... they honestly don't want to... what are the self conscious about? because i've never had any complaints... but some just don't want my face anywhere near their vajayjay

It's a confidence issue. It's socially acceptable for guys to worry about their penis size/shape/girth. It's not socially acceptable for girls to discuss the appearance/smell/taste of their vajayjay. We're taught to be ashamed of them. The only times we hear about what they might smell like is when someone in high school jokes about a fishy smell. I'm not sure about overseas, but here in Australia censorship laws forbid porn from showing anything but the outer lips, so the only vaginas we ever see are perfect, neat little lines that look almost prepubescent. We read stories of people getting vaginoplasty and because we don't KNOW what ours is supposed to look like, we start to wonder whether we in fact need this $5000+ procedure to surgically alter our vaginas before they are 'acceptable'.

So we become self-conscious. If you spend a mere five minutes in the ladies' changing room at the gym, you realize that boobs come in all shapes and sizes. But vaginas? They're a mystery to us. You men have seen far more vaginas than we ever have.

Generally, as we become more sexually experienced, we start to accept that there mustn't be anything wrong with us. But if a girl never lets a guy go downtown, she's never going to have the opportunity to get a positive reaction, so she's going to remain self-conscious.