She won't suck me! :( - The Attraction Forums

BloodyViper · #1 (**permalink**) 07-01-2008, 09:09 AM

Title says most of the deal.

Thing is that I've f-closed this girl, she is my LTR, I plan on keeping her for a long time and shit. But thing is...

She won't suck my cock!

I've asked her why, and she just says that she thinks it's weird and a little disgusting.

She's done it 2 times, where one of the times she was busted by the guy's mother. Can this have something to do with it?

I really miss a bj

Anyone got any strategies on how to make her blow me?

Lone Wolf 20 · #2 (**permalink**) 07-01-2008, 09:34 AM

Don't ever go down on her and tease her for sex. A girl I have been seeing for quite a while just didn't go down and so I basically showed her less interest and wasn't initiating sex and never touched, fingered or ate her out. Eventually she couldn't take it and went wild and went down on me, then I returned the favor. You could try something along those lines.

BloodyViper · #3 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 03:48 AM

Sounds good, but only thing is that I don't want to punish her or put pressure on her to do something she normally wouldn't like.

But apart from that, good tip

FemmeFatale · #4 (**permalink**) 07-06-2008, 05:23 AM

Go a lil cool on her sexually.. show very lil interest and she'll blow you

The Legend · #5 (**permalink**) 07-07-2008, 05:34 AM

there's something missing in other areas, i suggest a mild jealousy plotline

Cedar · #6 (**permalink**) 07-07-2008, 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by BloodyViper

Anyone got any strategies on how to make her blow me?

Move on.

Yep. I said next her. Why? She doesn't have the experience to give you the pleasure you want. And you don't have the experience to teach her.

You're settling on a girl that's not cutting it in the bedroom. Wanna know why? Scarcity.

So dump her. Start fucking other girls. Find another one.

JoeH · #7 (**permalink**) 07-07-2008, 11:44 AM

Try a flavored condom at first so she can get more used to the idea of sucking the junior.

DrummerGuy · #8 (**permalink**) 07-07-2008, 08:48 PM

While going down on her, position yourself so that she could give you head at the same time if she wanted to, ( like 69 on your side or something, get creative...) and make sure you're expressing how much you enjoy doing it. Tell her how good she tastes and how hot she is ect... Then tell her how hard she's making you, then tell her to FEEL how hard she's making you. At this point if she doesn't want to do it she might never want to. Don't force her though, respect and accept her for who she is and if she really hates it that much, then it might be time to peace out because to me thats a sign of deeper issues to come...

Anyway hope that helps and have fun!

wanderer · #9 (**permalink**) 07-07-2008, 09:41 PM

I had the same problem. I brought it up and she made the same type of excuse as yours. When she realized I was serious about it and willing to break up with her over it, she gave it another try. Whipped cream helped her out. I ended up breaking up with her later on anyway, but I think she got over the whole BJ phobia. Cheers to the next guy who gets her.

folieadeux · #10 (**permalink**) 07-08-2008, 03:58 PM

First decide whether the lack of suckage is really that sucky. If its a deal breaker then break it off (but don't tell any females or they'll think you're a dick).

If its not, then realize that not all women like sucking on a cock. There are many things you can do to make it more appealing and palatable. Keep it clean and most of all, never ever let her feel like a whore or that she must do it.