how to get my girl goin

[dbmistry]

hey ive recently escalated the make out sessions between my girl and i to the point where i have my hand down in her panties but im not fingering her. she tells me that it hurts and of course it does (its her first time) but i want to transition her from rubbing to fingering. the thing is, i need some tips on how to rub her good enough so that she gets turned on instead of sayin it hurts. can anyone gimme any advice. and also maybe a wat to transition into fingerin her...

[jacq69]

If you want to finger her there are two options. 1: Get her immensely aroused by rubbing her clitoris properly. Remember that a girl's clitoris is twice as sensitive as your dick so be gentle and remember to make sure the area is well lubricated. Use lube, use saliva, use her juices but make sure it's not dry or it will hurt her and not excite her. You can use indirect contact with her clit (through the little hood) or simply rub around it. Bite her neck and caress her boobs (not just the nipple but try licking around the crest of her breast just above where the underwire in her bra goes...you'll be pleasantly surprised). Then move a finger inside of her, then two. Notice on the front wall there's a spongy spot, that's a good spot. Use a "come here" stroke on that spot and lick her clit at the same time and you'll have her eating out of your hand.

2) If you want to finger her but don't want to spend the time arousing her so much just buy some lube, put it on your finger, make sure there's enough to lube her up and then slide it in. Lube is the key and be gentle.