"Men need to have an orgasm to relax, women need to relax to have an orgasm"
<PRELUDE THIS ALL BY SAYING YOU HAVE A SPECIAL NIGHT FOR HER TONIGHT>
When she comes home....
Start with a warm bath or shower with or for her.
Do not touch in the bath a lot, but just some soft kissing is ok.
Make it short, just enough to relax the muscles some.
Take her into the bedroom after you dry her off. Make sure it is not too dramatic of a temperature change.
Ask her to lay onher stomach and start with a back massage gently, use a body cream or lotion.
after you have done these two things start touching her with a "taking touch" (that means touch her like it pleases you, like the same way you would touch silk or something delicate) Touch her like you are enjoying the touch as well.
continue touching her this way, making tiny circles.
start at her shoulder and touch every part of her body EXCEPT HER NIPPLES OR VAGINA.
you can touch her breasts but DO NOT touch her nipples.
touch her thigh and around her pussy but do not touch her pussy.
Touch in between her breasts in the cleavage area.
Do not neglect her legs, arms, knees or elbows.
Also rub her hands.
It is also very important that no other part of YOUR body is touching her while you do it, and do not allow her to touch herself or touch you while you do it either. It builds up the most ridiculous desire for her to be touched in the spots you are neglecting IE her vagina and nipples.
After you have gently made small circles around her whole body, she should be openly making vocal moans and noises and possibly thrusting her pelvic.
Now you can start with the vagina.
First start by softly tracing the outside lips. DO this a lot, just tracing around the outside, then move to tracing the inner lips.
After you have done this for awhile she should be thrusting her shit in the air begging for you to stick a finger in her, by that time your ready now and work your magic.
DO NOT JUST START going crazy once you put a finger inside her,
go slow,
take your time,
and keep up with the SAME pace you have been drawing circles and tracing her body with.
Keep PACE.
Do not turn into a little horny toad just cuz your touching the pussy now.
Feel free to at this time do any other tricks you might like to do.. IE licking the clit while you finger etc...
Just remember the key is to KEEP PACE.
I have had many, many, many women tell me this was the absolute best experience they have ever had being fingered. Hope it helps.
