Cant stay hard - The Attraction Forums

musique · #1 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 01:30 PM

I don't get it. First time ever having sex, but I keep getting soft with this chick whether its a BJ (which kinda sucks) or sex. Even when it's hard its not at 100%, and after a while it gets soft. How can I stay hard enough to just blow one? Its like the opposite of a two pump chump, I just wanna blow a load so she doesnt feel like she cant satisfy me, which is how she feels right now. I don't get it. She's hot and I get hard ons just from making out, but as things get heavy it gets harder and harder (to stay hard)

Any explanations or suggestions?

BigDuke6 · #2 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 03:10 PM

Your dick is used to your hand. It's being inserted into a unknown place that'll take some getting used to. Pretty common problem.

1) Practice stroking your bone with a condom on. Get a pack of them and get used to putting one on. Go through the pack. Your body needs to acclimate to the new sensation.

2) You can get a cock ring, which will keep the blood in your johnson from leaving.

3) If you're receiving a BJ from the girl, try to get it in the same position that you usually masturbate. If you sit, get the BJ while sitting, etc. Your body is a creature of habit.

4) Practice, practice, practice with a patient woman. In no time at all, you'll be enjoying the poonani with great vigor.

True Pimp · #3 (**permalink**) 06-03-2008, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by BigDuke6

Your dick is used to your hand. It's being inserted into a unknown place that'll take some getting used to. Pretty common problem.

1) Practice stroking your bone with a condom on. Get a pack of them and get used to putting one on. Go through the pack. Your body needs to acclimate to the new sensation.

2) You can get a cock ring, which will keep the blood in your johnson from leaving.

3) If you're receiving a BJ from the girl, try to get it in the same position that you usually masturbate. If you sit, get the BJ while sitting, etc. Your body is a creature of habit.

4) Practice, practice, practice with a patient woman. In no time at all, you'll be enjoying the poonani with great vigor.

^Listen to this guy, I was in the same boat, but by doing the things he advised, I was able to OVERCOME and come and come and come

LittlbigD · #4 (**permalink**) 06-04-2008, 01:25 AM

Close your eyes and imagine it is a guy. If that works congratulations - you are on the wrong forum and have just saved yourself thousands of dollars in seduction products and seminars.

TheStroke · #5 (**permalink**) 06-04-2008, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by LittlbigD

Close your eyes and imagine it is a guy. If that works congratulations - you are on the wrong forum and have just saved yourself thousands of dollars in seduction products and seminars.

rofl

BBKaos · #6 (**permalink**) 06-04-2008, 07:41 AM

m8 im in same boat as youu hav been for like a year didnt no wot was wrong too embaressd to ask i am soo glad i saw your post Thanks loads guys

The One Self · #7 (**permalink**) 06-04-2008, 08:13 AM

Easy solution is to buy some "Yohimbe Fuel" -

You can get it at GNC.

One in the AM one before bed, your dick will be able to pound nails into a 4x4.

BigDuke6 · #8 (**permalink**) 06-04-2008, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by BBKaos

Thanks loads guys

Freudian slip ?

Nusoul · #9 (**permalink**) 06-12-2008, 11:35 AM

currently have the oposite problem. losing all interst in masberbation.. all i want is the real thing again....

trix8 · #10 (**permalink**) 06-12-2008, 01:10 PM

that same shit happened to me at first but i couldnt even have sex i wouldnt get hard enough but all u gotta do is relax, its prolly anxiety, the BIGGEST THING is DOnt STRESS it. your not getting all the way hard becuase ur over thinking it. ur kosher if u just dont stress it.