Bouncing around between comfort and seduction? Or an LMR?

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I was hanging out with my main girl last night. It was at her house and I was with my buddy and she was with her buddy. We usually do this a lot cause they like each other, as do me and my girl, obviously. We're watching a movie last night and I ended up getting my hands down her pants. This was the second time I've done this and the first time she let me at it for a few seconds but then tightened her legs up so I just left it at that. I did it again tonight and I was gentle and just like messing around with the outside of her pussy for awhile and then I went to go put a finger in and before my finger was even half way in she was like "oww" and tightened her legs up again. I was like fuck. She is a virgin though, I'm thinking she might be a little scared and it was kind of infront of our friends, but they were like making out and shit too like accross the room. But after I left I went to go text her about it, and I was like. "I'm sorry if I hurt you earlier. Or if I made you feel uncomfortable being too foreward" And she was like it's ok, I was just not feeling good, it was bad timeing. I was like ok, but I figured I'd take advantage of the situation because we NEVER talk about anything sexual really. So I was like "Well hey, I know we don't really talk about this stuff much and I just wanted to let you know if I ever make you feel uncomfortable you can tell me. Because I would feel really bad if something ever happened that you would regret later." And I haven't heard from her sense then. It's been like a day, and I'm kinda waiting for her to come to me. Maybe I was just way too foreward and scared her off? Me and this have been talking for a long time though, like 4 months. We're not dating, and I know she is REALLY REALLY into me. The whole situation is just really confusing though. Whatcha guys think?