Best Boyfriend Destroyer

[Bronson]

A. First of all, Bronson is back. If you don't know who I am, feel free to ask.

B. I've missed you guys and I have a lot to share from the last couple of years.

C. Here is a BF Destroyer that worked 2 nights in a row like a G.D. torpedo. I only break it out now when I'm feeling playful.

First of all, NEVER EVER EVER EVER ask, "so, do you have a boyfriend" or "are you single"? If you are asking those types of stupid questions you should be in the Newbie section. You don't care if she has a boyfriend, so don't ask. Her attention is on YOU right now (if you've done everything right so far) so don't blow it.

Here's the BF Destroyer. It works the best when it's a 2-3 yr relationship but can work in shorter as well. You want to tell her that her boyfriend doesn't value her the way he should or else he'd have already proposed. Guys are by definition non-committal, and we really only commit when we see value. Show her that he must not see value or he'd have already proposed. Here's how it looked for me.

The girl (HB8) was talking about her boyfriend. (I didn't bring it up, believe me.) So I went with it. "tell me about him, what's he like". You want to do one of two things when trying to destroy a BF. Either emasculate him (the "he sounds like a really nice guy, those are hard to find" approach), or make him look like a flat out waste of time. So I get all of the details, FOCUSING ON, "WHAT DOES HE LIKE ABOUT YOU"? This gets her to build up her own value in her head. That way when you drop part three "I just don't understand why you've been dating for 2 years and he hasn't made a committment, that seems crazy!"

Now, here is the KICKER. You start controlling the frame by talking about what YOU would do if you met a girl that has all of her attributes, (mirror her self-descriptions), put her in a spot where she's thinking "I do! I do have all of those qualities!" and then let her qualify herself to you. She's already convinced that switching horses from her BF to you might mean sooner committment (what they're really after) and if you've DHV'd enough she already thinks its an upgrade.

Try it. It works. And don't feel bad afterwards. Always remember that picking up a girl with a BF is like tossing a hand grenade into a cancer ward. It was going to be over soon anyway.

Glad to be back.



Bronson
Portland, OR

[_Shift_]

lol i like this alot, i'm gonna field test it soon, i'm curious.

the part that caught my attention the most (however)... was the grenade in a cancer ward comment lol made my morning.

can u expand on the "he sounds like a nice guy, those are hard to find" approach? (i haven't found too many bf destroyers on here, and YES, i used the "search" tool lol)

*Cheers!*
-Shift

[Bronson]

the key is to actually seem like "wow! you're super lucky he seems like a NICE guy. those are really hard to find." say that line ver batim and you can see in her eyes a mental picture of his balls being cut off.

the good news for you though is that pointing out his "strengths" (which we know are weaknesses aka being a pussy) you have defused all of her worries about you trying to hit on her. now you're someone she "knows" who accidentally made her think of her boyfriend in a different way and oh BTW has a lot going for him and would be a total upgrade.

girls don't like nice guys. hence the F in AFC. (frustrated). most guys think the princess treatment will get the girl on the hook. chivalry has a place and it's WAY after you start "dating".

word.

[DaBomb]

would this work ... in my situation ?

1) you know the girl for about 1 yr. (minus some major DLV from her)(Actions she commited)
2) you try to hang out and she's like "can't making supper for my b/f"
3) (she told me this after the "can't making supper for my b/f 2morrow")
Me: how long you've been together ?
Her: 1 Week
Me : Good Luck
Her: Thanks

- Lack of interest
- Lack of neediness
- Don't care aditude

[sdnightfly]

Nice guys don't go for attached women. They're the ones who will tell her to work it out and give advice. Part of it is intuition that she's there, her boyfriend/husband isn't...

Just realize that a lot of "good" and "nice" women have a dark side. All of them could be totally in love with their boyfriend or husband, but push the right buttons, they'll totally forget, and they'll justify what they're doing with you is ok.

Sometimes you're not the one doing the boyfriend destroying. Once you tap into the right places, they'll do all the rest.

Sometimes, you're actually doing them a favor. They might have a LSE with some guy that's never going to commit, they're going to hang on, and you come along and give them some value and worth, but also letting them know that you're not interested in anything serious, because they might assume you're going to be there if it doesn't work out. She needs to be on her own two feet and find her own identity, and not clinging on to guys, because once her head is clear and realizes her self-worth, she'll find someone better suited for her.

[Pennypacker]

Dudes why are you going after girls with boyfriends? Maybe I'm alone about this but I just think its somewhat morally wrong cause some of this pick up stuff is so powerfull that she might agree to have sex with you even though it is not what she really wanted.

And of course you run the risk of her having a psycotic boyfriend who will come after you. So thats why I prefer to go after single girls,

[HumorUS]

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grenade+cancer ward= LAUGHTER!!!!

Good boyfriend destroyer by the way!