How fast to move with a virgin

[Mahatma]

Well I've almost been dating this girl for over a month now. She is a virgin and I've gotten to the point of taking her shirt and bra off no problem or resistance. She had to spend the night at my house one night for reasons I won't explain, but nothing happened because of the reason she was staying over. I know she trusts me and is comfortable enough to, if I wanted, have sex with me but she would have huge regrets and I want to keep her my girlfriend. What can I say/do to warm her up to the idea of having sex with me? I am not in as much of a rush as many of the guys on here, so I'm willing to put in some time with this girl. When we are making out she's constantly dry humping me so I know she's GOT to be wanting more. I've read plenty of posts saying how neglecting one area will make her want that area touched, but I cant just poke around her body with my dick and skip the vag and expect her to want my dick there haha.

So how can I build up this girls sexual desire?

[dirtyt]

how old are you/her

If she's 18 and you're 21 plus I wouldn't go for it...sex is good but you don't want to be remembered unless you intend on really keeping her around.

The best way to break down a virgin, in my experience is to stimulate the vagina as much as you can and then eventually it just naturally moves to full blown sex...pretty much, finger and eat out and enjoy.

A caveat, if she's saving it for someone "special" and she ends up giving it up to you...be careful, psychos like her are a dime a dozen. Find out why she has been a virgin for however long.

[Mahatma]

we're both 18

[dirtyt]

if you're in the states and you're not gonna see her again regularly because one or both of you will be going away to school...then i say do it if you're a virgin and do her as much as you can before college starts...practice will help a lot


it's kind of twisted but... you can take her vcard because if you do...regardless of how good or bad you are...she will always remember you...always, even till the day she gets married (granted being good significantly raises the chances)

by doing this...even if you don't date you will always have the chance to bed her down the road...i.e. if you're both going away...you can still sleep with other chicks while she'll still be thinking of you

conversely...if she's a virgin and has any hint of emotional/psych/mental problems...only take her vcard if she's not going to be within 100 miles of you and even when you see her at home it will be for a minimal amount of time

[krytek]

yeah, I went trough a similar process less than a month ago.
here's how I did it:
1) get her into a comfortable place with a bed, it should be dark.
2) get her into the bed with you and start making out
3) remove her shirt and bra, and remove yours until you are the same or in your underware.
4) touch her all over her body first, start to make passes at the crotch area and "accidentally" touching there.
5) start touching her crotch area directly through her shorts\jeans
some say if she's in her jeans you should rub hard instead of just gently petting because sensation doesn't pass well through her jeans.
anyway, if you got this far it means she's ready.
6) pull off her pants and then her panties. if you encounter LMR use the appropriate LMR busting techniques. if what you say is true though I don't really think you'll get that much. just don't try to logic with her if she says anything, just agree and continue anyhow (lol usually I'm too turned on to care anyways), worst case scenario you can use freeze outs.
7) do it slowly at first and have fun, you won't forget this.