Major problem, can't figure this girl out and she is coming over tonight to spend the

[Ssmoove]

Ok, I have been talking to this girl for a little while now. We are very playful with each other and things have escalated a few times. However, I have not slept with her. We are always texting and clowning with each other and I have done alot of attraction and push-pull. I have also built a little comfort with her as well. The thing is, she is very hot and cold and sometimes I feel like I am in the dreaded "friend zone" but other times not. She is coming over tonight to spend the night and it will be the first time she is doing that. I was wondering if there are any ways I can figure this out tonight or if there is anything I can do to push this over the edge.

[cagalindo]

if shes coming over to 'spend the night' or 'watch a movie', shes coming over to have sex

end.

[Mr Jack]

yeah, just don't wierd her out

n if its watch a film i wouldn't put anything like dawn of the dead on either....

allthough i did once end up having sex whilst watching battle royale... yeah bit wierd.... and then again for 28 days later!

and not disney! its moraly wrong to have sex whilst theres disney on....

[whitemagic77]

Originally Posted by Ssmoove

Ok, I have been talking to this girl for a little while now. We are very playful with each other and things have escalated a few times. However, I have not slept with her. We are always texting and clowning with each other and I have done alot of attraction and push-pull. I have also built a little comfort with her as well. The thing is, she is very hot and cold and sometimes I feel like I am in the dreaded "friend zone" but other times not. She is coming over tonight to spend the night and it will be the first time she is doing that. I was wondering if three are any ways I can figure this out tonight or if there is anything I can do to push this over the edge.

Hey man I have pretty much the exact same problem with a girl. Very hot and cold just like you said and she is also spending the night soon. What did you end up doing and how'd it work out for you??

[Ssmoove]

Well, she actually came over and got right in the bed....Then she was playing very hard to get. She cuddled up to me immediately without hesitation but then kept her back to me. So, I was kinda like shit, I am in the "friend zone". We actually ended up falling asleep. I woke up the next morning thinking about everything I could've done wrong but then I realized that unless I tried to make the move I would never know. So when we woke up she actually began to stall from having to leave and I knew it was my moment. So I let her cuddle back up to me and I began to kiss the back of her neck and from then it was on! I realized that I had played a very hot and cold game with her and she was actually mirroring me! She liked me but didnt want to chase me either! She is a very confident girl and I am looking forward to many more encounters. She actually called me this last saturday night at 3:00 in the morning to come over but I was outta town. So if she is still cold when u get her in the bed, remember what these guys said, if she is staying the night, she wants u to make a move because even if she considers u just a friend she wouldnt easily put herself in a sexual situation like that.

[whitemagic77]

sweet man. Yeah thats what i figured something like that would happen and when you say you were hot and cold too it makes me kinda think. She could just be protecting herself by acting like that because maybe to her i appear the same way. but glad to hear it was on after you made the move, thats what usually happens once you take the plunge.

[_Shift_]

Originally Posted by Mr Jack

and not disney! its moraly wrong to have sex whilst theres disney on....

unless cartoon fetish is your cup of tea

hahahahaha, it's a sad world