first of all, put the movie on. preferably something light and comedic. then start
kino. you've seen the movie many times before. when she laughs, she feels more comfortable. have her in your arms while watching. if that's not the case, get a blanket.
preferable (got this from one of DD guest speakers) you tell her your DVD player in your living room is broken and the one that works is in your bedroom. there the game is easier.
You can do a lot of games. I once did mute the sound and voiced the actors onscreen with false dialogue. it obviouisly was dramatic but I used things like "why didn't you buy me apple?" etc. They'll laugh. After a few minutes you can lean in and kiss.