Seducing the Ex - The Attraction Forums

spootieluv · #1 (**permalink**) 07-08-2008, 01:22 PM

I dated this chick for a while, and then she found out that I had a few others on the side and we were on and off for a while, then she got a new BF and it's been about 8 months. I recently started talking to her again and would like to get with her one last time, you know finish things the way they should be finished. She knows me really well but I've been descreetly making her think i'm a changed man. does anyone have any advice on whether I can use my usual routine on this girl or is it useless to even try?

TheRogue · #2 (**permalink**) 07-08-2008, 01:31 PM

You cheated on her and now you want her to cheat on her BF so she can get with you "one last time?" Wtf man, just let her be and find a new girl. Why screw up her life for an ego fuck?

Rogue

LittlbigD · #3 (**permalink**) 07-08-2008, 04:22 PM

Agreed. Sounds like an ego game for you. Build confidence in yourself so who or what your ex does has no effect on you.

spootieluv · #4 (**permalink**) 07-08-2008, 05:08 PM

It's not an ego thing, It's that I can't really get over her I've held her on a pedestal for a long time and I don't know anything other than this that would bring her back to a realistic level in my mind so I can move on, I tried the whole 10 other girls thing, and I'm at a loss as to what I do next, thats why I'm here because i'm outta ideas

spootieluv · #5 (**permalink**) 07-08-2008, 05:12 PM

I've never had a confidence issue before this, so I suppose you could definatly be correct in saying thats the reason for the problem, looks like ive got something new to work on. I appreciate the feedback

sdnightfly · #6 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 12:30 AM

If you want to be with her again, let her relationship with the bf run its course instead of seducing her in the middle of it. No point in sabotaging something she's happy with.

A changed man would want to see his ex happy if he cares about her. It's an ego boost knowing you could have her at any time, but the reality is you don't need to cause confusion and wreck relationships just because you can.

If she's saying it's not working out with him and she's hanging out with you more, just make sure she knows that she has to completely end it with him and that you don't want to be a part of any love triangle where he's going to be coming around trying to get her back.

theagx · #7 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 04:29 AM

I agree with the advice. spootlieluv's comment "Im making her think Im a changed man" makes you sound like a misogynistic douche, sorry.

I thought gaming was to attract girls and become a better seducer, not so you can "fuck em n chuck em" for your own validation and ego.

I hope she DHVs. You blew your chance coz your ego needed masturbating.

DeadEyeDick · #8 (**permalink**) 07-09-2008, 05:59 AM

We don't treat one-itis here at this clinic.

GFTOW.