Going farther with this chick..

[Scars]

Okay, I like to think I'm pretty experienced at this stuff. I've been with plenty of girls, and I know all about escalation and stuff. But there's this one girl I want to really fvck. Last time I hung out with her I was at her house and we were making out, I started kissing her neck and stuff (left her a hickie by accident), and then I started sliding my hands up here shirt. Amazingly she let me feel up her tits and let me suck on them (I thought she was a prude..) and I thought hey, mine as well see how far I can go. So I put my hand over her crotch and just like rubbed her pvssy from outside of her pants, but she like grabbed my hand and moved it away. Now I probably could had tried again, and maybe it would had been different. Or maybe I could of asked her what was wrong and when she shot a anti slut deffence comment I could of negated it, but something wasnt in me that night. And I was actually suprised I even got as far as I did.

That was quite awhile ago though. I've ran into her a couple times, but that's it. We text every now and then. But like she keeps thinking I'm a player. I think that has a lot to do with. She knows I've been hanging out with other girls on the side of her. And all of her friends dislike me and tell her she should stay away from her. But amazingly she doesn't listen to them, and still wants to hang out. IOI? Idk.. i really wanna do this girl. But I don't wanna like offend her if I try going for it again, cause then she's gonna know for sure I just want sex. How should I go about this?

[mickyblueyes]

i personally would go for ultra direct wit her....like you have passed many boundaries with her and her pulling your hand away isnt neccesarily a big deal,again yeh asd,lmr r even a shit test to see how you would deal with it!

i think youve already attracted this girl n now all that is left is the seduction

so what you should do is go direct,kino,escalate make sexual comments and increase buying temp

maybe just tell her how yeh u attracted to her,but it aint your fault she an attractive girl, and how so many other lads (maybe use examples around the area) try so hard to pick girls up, and lie to them to trick them into sleeping with them.
but say u dnt wana do that to her, u dont wana lie to her n try n present everyting in a well wrapped preety little package for her to accept

say like,im gona be honest with u, i find u sexy/attractive and of course i want to bed you, who wouldnt?get the idea of having sex with you in her head

i would go on to say how attraction isnt a choice,men do appraoching n women do choosing, n how all men try to speed things up to sex n all girls try to slow things down...mention when will we just meet in the middle

like u dont havta game her,i find that talking bout this stuff works just aswell as doing the stuff...plants the idea in their head

i dnt no if u wud like to go this way, i used the other night to great sucess

just be forward,kino,escalate n f close....try it!!!!

[matix7]

Originally Posted by mickyblueyes

i personally would go for ultra direct wit her....like you have passed many boundaries with her and her pulling your hand away isnt neccesarily a big deal,again yeh asd,lmr r even a shit test to see how you would deal with it!

i think youve already attracted this girl n now all that is left is the seduction

so what you should do is go direct,kino,escalate make sexual comments and increase buying temp

maybe just tell her how yeh u attracted to her,but it aint your fault she an attractive girl, and how so many other lads (maybe use examples around the area) try so hard to pick girls up, and lie to them to trick them into sleeping with them.
but say u dnt wana do that to her, u dont wana lie to her n try n present everyting in a well wrapped preety little package for her to accept

say like,im gona be honest with u, i find u sexy/attractive and of course i want to bed you, who wouldnt?get the idea of having sex with you in her head

i would go on to say how attraction isnt a choice,men do appraoching n women do choosing, n how all men try to speed things up to sex n all girls try to slow things down...mention when will we just meet in the middle

like u dont havta game her,i find that talking bout this stuff works just aswell as doing the stuff...plants the idea in their head

i dnt no if u wud like to go this way, i used the other night to great sucess

just be forward,kino,escalate n f close....try it!!!!

not gonna lie man your writing style is a little bit hard to read but when I did your post is rock fucking solid. Props for your advice the general idea is golden in making a girl feel comfortable enough to hook up with you. People can get some good advice here.

[mickyblueyes]

sorry man im a big texter and so i shorten all my words up, i have to stop this if im posting doh, again apoligies!
Yeah let me know how this works on her, like it does make sense right? would love some feed back on how this works
I used the exact lines on a girl how attraction isnt a choice, and men do the approaching and girls do the choosing and all this time your planting these ideas in her head that she cant help but be attracted to you, you approached her and she should choose you! also girls are attracted to lads who have knowledge on topics such as attraction, love and what women want!

thanks for the props

[matix7]

Originally Posted by mickyblueyes

sorry man im a big texter and so i shorten all my words up, i have to stop this if im posting doh, again apoligies!
Yeah let me know how this works on her, like it does make sense right? would love some feed back on how this works
I used the exact lines on a girl how attraction isnt a choice, and men do the approaching and girls do the choosing and all this time your planting these ideas in her head that she cant help but be attracted to you, you approached her and she should choose you! also girls are attracted to lads who have knowledge on topics such as attraction, love and what women want!

thanks for the props

dont be sorry man i took so much value from your post. its a perfect f close. Im just gonna follow it up with a "im not looking for a girlfriend, but u never know, so i like to have fun blah blah - whatd you think?" and see where it goes. ill try it tonight on a girl ive been seeing for a while and see how it goes.

[mtnhwk2012]

refer to sinn's post about the two kinds of LMR..


this girl sounds like shes into you (maybe a bit unsure and confused but nonetheless attracted to you as a potential bf). you just gotta reassure her that you like her for things other than her looks and body.. you need to let her know that you cant stop thinking about her. she wants the reward of knowing that shes got you. DO IT SUBTLY THOUGH! unless shes the type that has low self-esteem.. some girls just like the stimulation of leading guys on and once you admit that she has you she'll move on and find u not attactive anymore. READ THE SITUATION MAN!!!