well I WOULD have put this into Field Reports...

[Marat]

had I not been robbed by some bullshit LMR that was completely out of left field.

HB8 at work...at my work place there are not many attractive females, so when one does come along, she sets a buzz for all the guys. Anyway, girl is 3 years older than me, just moved here from the Bay Area for a clean start (she was having too many problems over there with everything). She's a model on several websites (I'll add links later) so that is an instant boost for her to have every single guy that has heard the slightest detail about her to want to come meet her.

I personally think its easier to game girls who have 20 guys after them at once, over girls who have 2....it just makes it so much more fun Anyway, I haven't had the need for any "openers" or routines because I work with her so I interact with her on a daily basis. I'm naturally C/F so most of my interactions with her involve me busting on her and her laughing and saying the obligatory "aww youre so mean" but smiling and touching me all the same.

So last night...she texted me asking me if I was up to anything that night (she's been wanting to hang out). I told her I was gonna go hang out with some friends but that she was welcome to come (I wasn't gonna change my plans for her). So there was about 5 of us...just a homies hangout...we drank, smoked, played cards, it was fun...she got along great with all my friends so I was glad...but all through the night she was all over me so I knew what to expect. She kept grabbin my arm when talkin to me...I negged her on it..and she laughed and said "haha well im just doing it because you have nice arms...I mean i'm sorry..if I wanna touch and you're yoked..then I'll do it". But then she adds "buutt..that DOESNT mean that I'll fuck you" which kind of confused me cuz I never made any kind of overly-forward sexual joke quite yet for her to put it to that context already.

So I'm driving her home..and we're having a conversatin about personal attributes...and she remarks that she thinks good attributes are easier to see than flaws. so I ask her "so what are my attributes?"..and she goes "ha..well...I haven't seen it...I mean, them, yet...hahah". I would have gone in at this moment had I not been at the wheel. We get to her house and instantly we go at it in my car. It escalates..and i get her shirt off...but just then her sister calls. and then calls again. and then calls again. and all the while, this IS in my car, so its uncomfortable and there is a break every minute or so. Finally..just as she's unzipping my pants....her sister calls her again from the house...and she just goes "you know, I should probably just go..."

I thought she just got tired of the sister's phone calls. But she says "i mean..you're an amazing kisser..and I'll kiss you and all..but we can't do much more than that..." and she slipped out of my car.

So the LMR could be for a couple reasons...but my question is...what's the best way to react to something like this. I'm glad I wasn't my former AFC self where I would try to reason with her and get closure and try to lure her back in and basically seem like a weak man-toy. But I also dont want to seem like a freak who would just have nothing to say on the matter and let her leave. How would you guys respond to her saying that?

[RunMan]

first off her "I wont fuck you" Statement was intentional. She doesn't want to seem like a slut.

I Would normally not advocate gaming chicks you work with BUT dont act phased by what happened. Continue with your normal self. Invite her out to 'whatever' etc etc and this time freeze her out a little more. Get her worked up.