jealousy - use a girl to take her from her boy?

[Peter_Pan]

Had a touch of 1-itis for a girl for a few years now, she has always had a bf so has been out of limits but we've always been close and i feel there is attraction between us.

ok so her bf is an asshole, they live about 30 miles apart but he never visits her, she has to go to him and they see eachother about once every 2-3 weeks, i dont think he apprciates her or deserves her or he would visiit her more often, i heard his excuse and its coz he doesnt like buses whatever that means, if he likes her he would get on a frigging bus

well anyway, i have been travelling so havnt seen her for a while, but before i went i had a bit of a leaving party, we were dancing and flirting all night and when no one was looking i kissed her, at first she pushed me away and said she cant coz she has a bf, i said just the one kiss then and she started to kiss back, i stopped coz some one was coming into the room

i have a new girl now, do you think i could use her to make her jealous? should i introduce them to eachother? and maybe make her more likely to cheat if she thought i was cheating too? ideally i dont want her to cheat, i would like her to leave him and be with me and i would leave mine too

its complicated i know, but any thoughts?

[Cedar]

Originally Posted by Peter_Pan

...any thoughts?

Move on. Your preoccupation with this one girl is hurting your ability to become the man you were born to be.

[Peter_Pan]

well, im not purely focused on her, but i dunno, really do feel theres some good potential there, but if not then its worth trying to get 1 lay from it

[RunMan]

jealousy wont work for you. She has a boyfriend so she can play the game too. You are better off playing the field to your advantage, which would be attraction and comfort.