what do u usually tell a girl when she asks you how many girls you've slept with?

[Nemisis]

I don't like Cheezy's. It sounds to staged/contrived. Like you say it to everyone.
I'd rather say something more original sounding like Deadeye said.

Like playing dumb instead of dropping some James Bondish sounding crap. (no offense).
"Slept with?".. What do you mean?

-"You know, had sex with?"
-"Oh ok.. why are you talking about sex?"

I prefer answering the question with a question repeatedly till they stop asking. At which point the topic changes and they can't stop obsessing about the answer.

NEVER give in. DON'T act intentionally evasive. Be fact a matter about it, like it simply doesn't matter and shouldn't even be a topic of conversation. If you're frame is strong & game is tight, she'll shut up but it will draw them in rather than jumping through their hoops and shooting out any contrived shit.

[TrueStory]

why not just say the real number (as long as it's over 10)?

so who cares, if she doesn't like that, her problem.

[_Cane_]

I got asked this last week and tried something different. Usually I do the "are we counting cousins?" bit but this time I threw it back on her..

I made a snide little grin and said "well.... how ever many you've had sex with... if you divide that by 2 and then multiply it by one thousand then you'll have your answer.."

she slapped my arm and said "i knew u were a slut"

Honestly I like what I usually say better.. "are we counting cousins?" and if they push it then I just use something I heard Sinn say "look, for some reason girls like me, I guess its because I grew up with sisters. And I like them too and that might have something to do with it.. so. ANYWAYS."

The point is this question is a total shit test. She isn't even really sizing you up based on your number, she is sizing you up based on how you answer.

[Nemisis]

Originally Posted by TrueStory

why not just say the real number (as long as it's over 10)?

so who cares, if she doesn't like that, her problem.

Yeh I feel yah on that one.

But to me its like a person not liking someone on basis of their hair color, just out of past beliefs they have that they'll project onto you when it really doesn't matter, even when you know its out of their own ignorance.

If she didn't like it I wouldn't care, but game aside I'm trying to transfer a belief system that in the end is usually more affective, which is ultimately teaching them to be less judgemental and to get to know someone on more important terms and making them realize how unimportant their terms are.

I just like avoiding any generic questions in general, like "so what music do you like?

"puff the magic dragon.. you want my favorite color too?" than switch the thread. Not like an ass, but like I'm communicating with a 9 year old.

[Phateless]

Originally Posted by D1G1T4L

or whats the best way to ignore the question =)

I say "i'm clean. with all due respect i don't think it matters. i'm with you now."

when they ask if i want to know i tell them i don't need to. doesn't matter to me.

[Pony Boy]

i like saying "2 is the most i've ever slept with at the same time". ;P

[Nemisis]

Originally Posted by Phateless

I say "i'm clean. with all due respect i don't think it matters. i'm with you now."

when they ask if i want to know i tell them i don't need to. doesn't matter to me.

I love it, same concept just worded more directly. Concept being "who cares?"

Or it doesn't matter, and I think it actually comes off more classy and respectable.

UNLESS you genuinely come off like a virgin, evading a question like that and having a voice like your balls didn't drop yet will def not work to your benefit.

But if you're normal, "who cares?"

[cheez avenger]

LMFAO!


"Are we counting cousins?" That's great!

[cheez avenger]

Originally Posted by Nemisis

I don't like Cheezy's. It sounds to staged/contrived. Like you say it to everyone.
I'd rather say something more original sounding like Deadeye said.

Like playing dumb instead of dropping some James Bondish sounding crap. (no offense).
"Slept with?".. What do you mean?

-"You know, had sex with?"
-"Oh ok.. why are you talking about sex?"

I prefer answering the question with a question repeatedly till they stop asking. At which point the topic changes and they can't stop obsessing about the answer.

NEVER give in. DON'T act intentionally evasive. Be fact a matter about it, like it simply doesn't matter and shouldn't even be a topic of conversation. If you're frame is strong & game is tight, she'll shut up but it will draw them in rather than jumping through their hoops and shooting out any contrived shit.

I thought I was channeling James Bond?

[Quarterback]

DED, you're killing me with the cousin stuff!!! Definitely put that in the repetoire (did i spell that right?)