Complete mess up?

[bigleggo]

SO long story short. i met this girl at work through a friend. blonde ditsy etc.. she is hot.. while i was working there she had the biggest obsession over me. she would come to work on days she didnt work to see me. she would want me to stay and i played with it for a while. she had or still has a boyfriend and all.( i donno she says she isnt with him any more, but lives in his house still because she still has a lease to pay ) anyways.. the girl screwed over my friendship with a good friend of mine(my fault btw) but now she is being shady. she used to text me all the time and stuff. just crazy like 500 texts a day now its barely 1 or 2 if i dont text her. i asked her if she wanted to date she said yes. i get to see her like every two weeks because she seems to be busy doing other things. seems like she doesnt want t0. then i was a COMPLETE idiot and i got attached to her somehow, and i got "needy" you would call it, i kept calling her and asking her if she wanted to hang out and date and stuff. Im on a vacation now but when i get back she says she wants to try.. im not sure.. what should i do?

EDIT: forgot to add first date was more of like i could have fucked her but made a choice not too.. fingered her, seccond time aswell.. she wanted me to fuck her but i have a rule i fallow. i dont fuck until its atleast 4th date lol donno its wierd but ya..

[virtuoso]

looks like you just found out why she split from her bf in the first place.

Just tell her you aint interested and move on. I guarentee you will be at square 1 within a week

[sdnightfly]

Fix your friendship.

She's going to think she can have you whenever she wants....she thinks she can have any guy she wants. She's young. Some girls eventually get it together and wind up being great wives. Some wind up being a huge strain and don't change.

You'll realize that you get more pleasure in saying no to girls from time to time.