No sex, only sleepovers - The Attraction Forums

brian11 · #1 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 01:49 PM

This is my first post, although I've been lurking the boards for the past few weeks.

I've been casually dating this HB9 for a month (we made each other dinner, she comes over to watch movies, we party together-we're both in college).

I can't seem to escalate to sex. She shows interest by introducing me to her friends, talking me up, hot makeout sessions, etc, but that's where it ends. She's slept over 4 times now, and kissing is as far as it goes.

What do I do?

Vapor · #2 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 02:09 PM

What do you mean by, "that's where it ends." I'm assuming you don't fall asleep mid-smooching.

BigDuke6 · #3 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 02:10 PM

Put her hand on your junk the next time you guys make out. You'll find out very quickly what her hangup is depending on her reaction.

brian11 · #4 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 02:12 PM

it just ends, and we end up cuddling and falling asleep. it's horrible. i've past every stage of the courting, up until sex...comfort level is high, kino escalation can't go any further, etc. i've tried kissing her neck, ears, and other areas, and she responds positively, but i just can't get past that.

TrueStory · #5 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 02:26 PM

you don't escalate...that's why. Vapor said it right.

Start kissing her neck then ears, then slowly her chest....take off some unnecessary clothes....

......serious question:
....are you a virgin?

brian11 · #6 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 02:29 PM

not even close to being a virgin.

most girls in the past that i've f-closed have been heat of the moment one-nighters, where we both knew what we were getting ourselves into by getting into bed, or girls that have "went along" with my escalation and escalated in return. this HB9 does not return the escalation, and i'm afraid that if i push it, she may be offended.

Vapor · #7 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by brian11

this HB9 does not return the escalation, and i'm afraid that if i push it, she may be offended.

Or she may fuck your brains out. She may be waiting for you to lead. She may have no intention of sleeping with you (though I doubt it). She may have a penis. You have no idea.

Escalate. Help her off with those pesky clothes. If she stops you, stop.

miaddict · #8 (**permalink**) 04-10-2008, 04:01 PM

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Also read the Sex forum. If it's LMR, then there are ways to deal with it.

djunderstudy · #9 (**permalink**) 04-16-2008, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by miaddict

Get The interview on SEDUCTION NOW
http://www.ivspodcast.com/seduction.html

Also read the Sex forum. If it's LMR, then there are ways to deal with it.

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miaddict · #10 (**permalink**) 04-16-2008, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by djunderstudy

worst mod ever. always advertising crap and never giving any helpful advice. thanks

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