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Old 02-17-2008, 10:55 PM
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Default Should I Lose My Virginity With a Married Woman?

Catchy title isn't it,lol?

Here's the situation and I really need feedback!!!

Okay,so I just went to this small house party with 10-15 people( I knew almost all of them) and I'm good friends with the married woman (Lets call her Girl A). Oh and this house party wasn't girl A 's idea, it was just another girl that wanted a get together.

So my buddy Kahn and I ring the doorbell and Girl A opens the door. Right when she saw me she gave me a BIG HUG and didnt let go of me. Then I almost lost my balance and fell because she was still attached to me. I asked her if she drank and she said no. Kahn who walked in after me said damn, she's a little friendly isn't she, and I was like "Yeah", but I didnt think nothing of it.

So Kahn and I are just saying wutz up to all of our buddies that are there and we talk for a little bit. I sit down and right when I sit down, about a minute later comes Girl A, sitting right on top on me. I take this as the first IOI.

My friend who threw the house party wanted to play a game. Everyone had to raise all of their fingers up and you can only put a finger down when you have done something. So whenever I person spoke, they Had TO SAY I HAVE NEVER DONE BLAH BLAH BLAH SO THAT THEIR FINGERS WOULD REMAIN UP. For example, I would say I never said sex in my life so my fingers would remain up and everyone in the game would had sex would put a finger down.

Anyway, we're playing the game and someone says "I never had sex with two different women before" Some people lost it and some didnt. Someone asked me, Mr.Araya, "you never had sex with two different women before?"

Before I opened my mouth one of my good girlfriends tells everyone, "NO HE'S A VIRGIN". Everyone was shocked, and I felt embarrassed, but a couple of girls backed me up saying thats cool or who cares. But GIRL A said, "Don't worry I think its sweet that you are still a virgin, and really respect that, thats attractive to me and don't listen to anyone in this room". (Remember that she is still on my lap while we are playing this game)

After the game was done and over with, people are just talking again, and the Girl A shows me a pic of her house that her husband is building her. She then tells me that she got married at the age of 24, (she's 25 now) her husband is a layer/attroney, and that she has fucking 10 acres of land and more shit like that.

Later on that night, the girl who threw the party decides to make everyone now watch a movie. I'm not sitting on the couch like my other friends, I'm sitting on a chair, so Girl A sits on top of me again. We're watchin the movie she leans in on me some more, and starts putting her neck right by my head. (Second IOI) She kisses me on my cheek and then tells me to kiss her cheek. I kiss it, and then she starts rubbing her face against mine for the hell of it.
So I told her sarcastly," Hey your married, you got that ring on your finger" She instantly got up and left to sit with my other friends but she would always look in my direction during the movie.


She gave me more very kino touching IOI's that I dont remember afterwards and I knew that we could have easily made out and then more. I'm a virgin and I want to have sex, but I didn't want to lose it with a married woman.DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH PROBLEMS THAT COULD BRING ME IN THE FUTURE? I believe in Karma, so what goes around will come around and bite my ass in the same way or even WORSE! The fact that her husband was a laywer/attorney didnt really help the situation either.

I need feedback quick guys!!! Should I lose my virginity with this married woman?
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Old 02-17-2008, 11:02 PM
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you answered your own question. you believe in karma, you dont want to do it, so dont!

You fucked up when you said that ring shit.

If you are debating this question you obviously want to fuck this girl.
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Old 02-18-2008, 08:38 AM
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I only said the ring shit because I knew it would get her off me. If I didnt't I could have been makin out with her, but I still don't know what to do.
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Old 02-19-2008, 10:32 PM
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What's the age difference between her and her husband?

It sounds like she's with him for financial security but that isn't enough for her, and chances are that she's probably already cheated, but who knows what their marriage is like.

And even if she wound up telling her husband, he's going to be upset at her, not you. If you're in your mid-20s, and your girlfriend said she slept with an 18 year old, how are you going to be mad at him??

It isn't your karma. She's the one who made the commitment, she should know better.

I can't think of how I am now...at that age, if I was trying to lose my virginity, I wouldn't care if she was married, and it would be one time because the potential to want more is high.

I hate to say it, but a lot of people cheat in marriages and they're usually the ones you'd least suspect. A lot of times it doesn't break up the marriage but winds up being a wakeup call that a lot of work needs to be done.

The important thing is when you get married you're the one who can live by your commitment.
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Old 02-19-2008, 10:37 PM
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dude messing around with a married woman is bad news, dont go there man.

as you said, bad karma

ask another obvious question im hear
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I say stay away from married women period. Plus, do you really want to give your virginity to someone who has so little integrity that she would cheat on her husband?
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Old 02-20-2008, 03:29 PM
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Man I would say don't do it... Just remember how it would feel to have a gun put to your head (and the trigger be pulled). My moral compass will not allow me to knowingly sleep with a married woman though.
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Old 02-23-2008, 02:20 AM
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i say the hell with it, if a married woman wants to cheat on her husband, then do it. but i would'nt lose my virginity to a married woman, then again, she would have lots of experience and your first time will be fun rather then dull and boring like a lot of first timers get. i wish i had an experienced woman my first time who new what she was doing.
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Old 02-27-2008, 03:30 AM
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As my friend puts it:
Pussy is pussy.

What's the difference?

Just because she has a fucking ring on her hand makes her invulnerable to sacrificing virgins?
WTF!?

Damnit man, I wear two rings, it doesn't make a difference for me!

Fuck her if you want to, jeez.

The only difference karma makes is getting into a set or not depending on how you present it
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