Girl is coming over to make me some dinner

[musique]

So, a girl that I've been hanging out with recently, has seemed to really enjoy hanging out and making more opportunities to hang out (ie: she asks to make plans, not me asking her)

So I told her my parents were going to be gone today, so she suggested she come over and make dinner.

How should I go about escalating things afterwards? I was thinking of a movie after the meal but not sure.

I'm in college btw.

[Rolls]

Afterwards?

Dude. there is no afterwards, there is only now.

When she walks through the door, give her a big hug... that is the start of your escalation. All through the meal you should be kino'ing her, so that you can lead her down the path of where you want it to end up.

If you play your cards right, you should not be thinking about a film after the meal, you should be getting her to be thinking about desert...

(out of curiosity, what has college got to do with it??!!)

From what you have said, you need to start leading all the interactions, you seem to be following her lead, which is not the best of place to be. Yes, you need to show some disinterest, but not to the point that she is arranging everything... although props for the meal thing.

Start by building attraction with her during the meal, qaulify (how about a question like 'so what can you do better than all the other girls?' or 'Some girls are really adventurous, despite their shy exterior... you know you come across as some one who is very tuned in to what they want, and will go after it and probably succeed... does that sum you up?) and and build comfort, so that by the end of the meal.. well, you know what!

You just need to apply some game!

[Emi]

Spend at least 2-3 hours for cooking and eating. Do not let her cook regular food, if she decides to give her neg and show some DHV. You don't need a movie afterwards. If you really want to do something afterwards, what about a bottle of wine so you two can relax little bit. Just set the mood and rest should be up to you

[DanJer]

Make sure she does the dishes too.

Go with the flow, Primo.

[firemedictj]

Rolls hit it on the head!
LEAD the escalation, and do it from the start. She is already coming over to make you food. She has given you the power and you seem worried about having it. No more of this AFC shit, Take control of the situation, she wants you to. Kino is key, and it has to start slow but immediatly.
Best of your opportunity.

[agold7964]

i reallly like what he said. right when she walks in: big fat juicy hug!! then *game on!*