"I had a dream we were having sex... but no sex before marriage"

[armando021]

Hey guys
heres the whole no sex before marriage thing. except this girl had a dream that i was fucking her in a hot tub and parts of it were really vivid. and she also said "I guess it's all built up over the years" to explain why she had the dream. So basically her body wants it, but her mind is saying no sex before marriage as she is religious and doesn't even drink. She also felt very embarassed for having the dream.
I tried to make sex seem like a normal thing, like ya its just like drinking water. And saying my view on it is if u like someone and they like u back why not? but at the same time not seeming desperate or anything..
What do you guys think? How do I make her get over the logics of it and just give into her urges? I was just thinking of teasing her allllllot sexually, but im not quite sure how.
Help is appreciated.

[Confucius]

First of all stop trying to explain things to her don't be an explainer her, you want her to do things on impulses. All you need to do is build up the sexual tension. Give her a massage (if she doesn't want to - don't take no for an answer), then stop. Then start stroking/tickling her arm or back of her neck or play with her hair. Then stop. Repeat, then start stroking her leg. You get the idea, 2 steps forward, 1 step back. Just build up the tension to a point where it is unbearable for her anymore.

[sdnightfly]

You don't want the sex to lead to something she's going to regret. She needs to be responsible for her actions.

When she said she was embarrassed by the dream, I would've said there's nothing to be embarrassed about, there's probably a lot more going on in your head...bright women are sexual by nature.

As far as her faith goes, if she's a deeply religious person who has nothing less than 100 percent commitment, then she should wait. But most women who say they're waiting until the wedding are usually insecure and think the guy is going to leave them.

But once she loses it, she will either expect you not to leave,or because she's been repressed, want to see what else is out there. Chances are she's going to have few partners in her lifetime. It's a guessing game with no right or wrong answers.

[Mr Jo]

helleu,

I have a girlfriend, who is a believer and first want to marie and than live together and have sex...

That was what she told me 1,5 year ago.

She is from latvia, (imazing girls there btw) im from belgium.

When she told me that i thought, deam what to do now....
1 week later, she was on top of me!

What workt for me, relaxe, she feels that, she feels that you are shure about yourself, apha man!

Dont push ore make it funny like at is a very normal thing, THAT IS NOT FORE HERE!!!

make here comfortable in the situation, understand here but dont give here advise, but be a support.

tel here that she disite when it wil be and that it need to be special.

Show here that you wil stik around and dont leave here after the sex, if she belives that belive me, you are in!!!

a good trik whe its get hot during the forplay, say "slow down baby, we BETTER stop here before..." and rejec a cople times " it need to be spaial babe" and rejec, "are you shure" and rejec.

So she c that you are honnest and make it important, but she dont now that YOU ARE LEADING!!!

it wil go, it workt for me and she stil go to the churtch.

Greetz from Belgium