How do I make an impression last over 3 weeks?

[janzak]

I know you might thing it's not the way it "should" be but I've fallen for a girl, and badly too. The first day we met, we just talked and got along amazingly well (she's renting my apartment with a friend so I was there to get some papers). The second day, she wanted me to keep her company while her friend was at a party, so I slept with her (no sex though) and had a great, cozy time waking up with her. Those are the three days we've hung out at all.

She's the one who invited me to her bed but I failed to deal with the repeated LMR. She left for work the next morning, giving me just a hug.

She's leaving for a 2 week skiing trip this Sunday, so I either have the option of meeting her this weekend (too soon?) just to "fix something in the apt.", or in 3-4 weeks after she gets back.

Some problems;
* I'm in the middlegrounds between an AFC and a PUA
* She wrote a blog entry where she says her heart's been broken, plus she told me on the phone that her ex had told her "I'm still in love with you... but, nah." and she had just gone "okay" and left. Dunno what more happened between them. She might have fallen back into what they had before.
* She's got a very "rocker" attitude, she doesn't give a lot of shit about things and just speaks her mind while being spontaneous. She's not a puppy girl who just texts all the time when she gets attention.
* She's leaving soon! I need to be an option when she gets back, she needs to think of me so she doesn't forget me while she's away.
* We did get along very nicely, but screwing up now will make the situation cool down too much for her.

I've got some serious hots for this girl, if it fucks up I'll try to get over her ASAP but for now I want to give it a shot.

Extra info?
* First day we met, she invited me to go on a 2 week train trip through Russia in October
* She was the one who invited me to sleep with her, even though another guy had slept there without them having sex a week earlier
* Her friend told me "so I heard you and X had a nice time yesterday? "
* We faked getting married on Facebook, but yesterday she "divorced me" since people started thinking she was serious.

I know it's AFC talk but it just feels like we had a connection, even though she might not be in phase for this right now.

Bottom line!
I need to make an impression on this girl, don't care if I slowly snare her by texting or if I can sweep her off her feet this weekend. The decision needs to be made Friday at lunch, CET +1 since that's when the plane home leaves!

[oppyeaunome]

man shes gone go out and sarge man i could give you some game to get her but thats too long so jus let her go nigga

[majesty95]

You're making her the prize, first mistake. You could get together before you go and have a great time and make a lasting impression, but that's about all you can do. Set up a date, do some cool things, and see what happens.

By the way, you've "falen" for her because you're probably not very experienced for girls and somewhat insecure. She makes you feel good because she shows you interest and invokes feeling you haven't had before. They'll come again. Talk to girls while she's gone. You'll see I'm right.

[Robertitoo]

Just make sure u come off as confident if your gonna spend time with her if your any good at being cockey funny you can make her forget all about that last guy. Dont let her put ur ass in the friend box you gotta keep it sexy... tease the shit outta her thats what helps me. *if she ever talks about her last boy straight up change the subject or let her know you dont wanna hear about it... ive dun this b4 i make em feel like "why are you telling me this". But as for leaving a lasting impression while your out... (just an idea) if things go well while ur with her and your talkin bout the trip try giving her something to remember you by while shes gone... i suggest jokingly not too serious kinda a just for fun thing... see if she can hold on to it the whole time and bring it back to you... she doesn't seem into cute stuff so maybe an item that would fit her personality... hope this helps a lil more than the other posts.

Robertitoo-

[janzak]

Originally Posted by majesty95

...By the way, you've "falen" for her because you're probably not very experienced for girls and somewhat insecure...

Yeah, compared to a PUA I'm pretty inexperienced but I do get ONS through parties every 2 months or so and finding girls to play around with isn't hard. The difference here (and I'm aware it's AFC to think like this) is that she's amazingly cool while she doesn't really care about me. She's harder to get and I like it!

Originally Posted by Robertitoo

Robertitoo-

Haha yeah, I noticed it's a lot harder to game a girl you actually like "in that way"...

So cocky funny, diss her ex, tease her and some item bet to make her remember me. Awesome! I've thought about most of those but I wasn't sure. I'll prolly see her in a couple weeks (I didn't do anything after the initial post, don't think it would've helped) and I'll text game a bit up til then.

Thanks man!