She's in my bed and...

[Lil_Player]

...I dont know how to seduce her!

I've been on a lot of private parties lately and the nights often end with everybody sleeps over. And when I haven't kissed the girl Im sleeping with, I get insecure how I should seduce her. Like it's been 4-5 times now I've been sleeping besides a girl (we haven't shared the same covering) and got frozen.

Any ideas?

[The Show]

Well i dont know how you got urself into bed with her if youve had no kino what so ever and im not sure what not sharing the same cover is but this is what i would do. If youre laying next to her you almost certainly have permission to cuddle or get close to her. I may even go as far to say that she may think its odd if you dont.

Once ur cuddling w her and you have an arm around her, touch her hands.. play with her hair... rub her side over or under a shirt (love handle area down even to the side of her butt)... if youre spooning id get close to her neck and breathe slowly and warmly on her neck... if you feel comfortable enough kiss her ears and blow warm air... just make sure you keep progressing and pushing limits and dont stall... if youre facing her then its even easier, hold her close and get your faces close together... touch your foreheads together, your noses, your cheeks... you will deff see her complying or not, she may even move in and kiss you if youre advancing well enough... and go from there...

Hope this helps, anything else?

[DanJer]

Easy.

Give her Danjer's Laws.

1) It's my bed so if you get in there It's my decision if I want you naked.
2) I get to do what I want.

Faced with these she'll either leave. Or except them.

Have fun.

[sdnightfly]

Don't make it about sex, just make it about her getting comfortable in your arms, and rubbing her arms and back.

I think in your case, it should be someone who you've already built some attraction with and some physical interaction with so you're not as hesitant when the time comes to lie down.

One time I lied down facing her legs..she thought it was weird at first until I started massaging her. I avoided the obvious place, but worked her thighs and calves really good, then went up to lie normally, a little bit of a backrub...then I had my back face her, and said "your turn".

Usually it starts with being playful "stop hogging up the blankets" and pulling her close to you, and getting her to lie her head on your chest, which can be all innocent and nothing might happen. Even if it's someone sitting next to me on a plane that I'm having a good conversation with, I'll just tell her that if she gets too sleepy to lift the arm up and if she lies on me, it's not going to bother me. You can usually tell if it's someone that is going to be receptive to more than lying on you.

Sleepovers where there's a lot of people because they've all been drinking... usually don't lead to sex unless everyone's got a little bit of privacy.

And extra blanket in the car. Clean.

[Lil_Player]

Thanks for the replys guys

I really like The Snows esculation technic and sdnightfly's massage!

DanJer: It's not my bed so it's gonna be weird if I say so :P but thanks anyway

[HenryHotspur]

The principles are the same as anywhere else:

You need to gradually escalate kino in a way that doesn't trigger her defenses, and let things build naturally.

You have to be very attentive to how receptive she is, because a guy who starts hitting on a girl who's trying to sleep just because she was friendly enough to share a bed with him is completely creepy.