I want to keep seeing this girl (dating or relationship) but I got LMR on the first..

[White_Juan]

First time we hung out (last week)
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Long story short. Pretty much we were making out on my bed non-stop watching The Departed. Kissing and licking on the necks. She got on top of me. I did some 2 steps foward 1 step back ect

I got her to the point where we had our clothes on and she was ontop of me.
Rubbing my hands all around her. Then had my hands on her back underneath her shirt. She didnt mind. I even had my hands around her ass and started rubbing her pussy a little through her pants.
Ok so I moved my hand underneath her pants. She didnt mind.

By this time I thought, hey, if she lets me do that then I can get those pants off... (WRONG)

I went to un hook her pants. She stopped me by tickling me and told me no ha.
I know where I made the mistake, I should of said at one point "lets slow this down a little". That would of made my "1 Step back 2 steps front" much better.

But anyway, I said, "ok".
We went back at watching the movie on my bed.

Then we went back at making out, attempted 2 more times. She wasnt getting mad. She was just didnt want sex that night.

I asked her: "why"
She said: "I dont want to seem too easy, I like sex in all but I dont want to seem too easy. " (by the way, I only asked her "why" once. I didnt make her explain herself to me. She gave me a long answere to a short question. I didnt cry or bitch or anything)
I said: "I understand I know where your coming from its ok"
She says: "Youll get it soon but youll have to wait. We will defiantley have to hang out more"

Then we went back at making out, ect

No biggie. Its been a couple days now. We still see each other.
Obviously, she isnt the type that gives sex on first dates. I thought she was because she told me she is a nympho and she loves sex.

I guess what I am asking is, I want to keep seeing this girl. We been seeing each other for like 2 weeks now. First date was last week.
Today we are going to hang out. Should I have sex tonight with her on our 2nd date or wait 1 more date?
Attraction is already built
Were in comfort. I have to say that there should be about 6 hours of comfort at the very least.
Since we work together we see eachother alot or talk to each other. Its also where my social proof and pre-selection come from

[SkinnyGoomba]

going in expecting something is always the wrong attitude for me.

Just put on a movie after you guys have your date, and see what happens. She sounds like she's pretty freaky, she just doesnt want to make a mistake.

These things take a little time sometimes, i'm sure she wants to get comfortable with you before she allows you to take it any further.

Just, IMO, dont be pushy, but dont be a pushover.
If you are too pushy, i think it will cause her to regret it.

[DeadEyeDick]

I've moved this to the Seduction section where you may get more direct advice, like Skinny Goomba's, specifically about seduction issues and techniques.

[SkinnyGoomba]

BTW, in my experience all the girls who've told me they're freaky, usually over-rated themselves, and i was dissappointed.

The ones that told me nothing were the freaky ones!

[White_Juan]

BTW, in my experience all the girls who've told me they're freaky, usually over-rated themselves, and i was dissappointed.

The ones that told me nothing were the freaky ones!

LMAO

Amazing...

I shouldnt have went in the intent of having sex. Wish she didnt tell me she was a nympho