Arrive at Sex Location & "I'm gonna go home now" OK, so had a day 2 a few nights ago. Day 1 we had made out for probably 20 minutes total but it was a work night and the location was chosen to give us a good halfway point because snow was heavy and it wasnt ideal to try and bring her back (too far). Then Day 2 - easy kiss right from the start and another 20 minutes of make out.
At the end of the day 2, we drove back to my place (she had met me there and came into my apartment to start the date) and as soon as we got out of the car, she was like "OK, I am going to head home now". I told her to come inside to watch a music video I wanted to show her and she agreed. We get inside and quickly start making out on the futon. In the midst she is like "I should go" and I was like "yeah you probably should" but kept going (trying to be illogical and mess with her). Anyway we stop for a second to look at the computer and she did it again and this time I let her leave.
Any suggestions for how to handle this kind of LMR if any? I don't want to appear too needy. I was thinking maybe I should have not been so quick to make out with her when I got her inside but then again I was trying to be aggressive. Maybe she had her period or something so maybe I am overanalyzing.
Side note: I am concerned she started thinking about how I told her on day2 I really want to get to know her better but am not looking for a committed relationship yet. She facebook poked me after she got home and I messaged her there the next day,and then again sent her a text Xmas greeting but no response since we met Friday night which bothers me a bit. I do have a FB so I don't want to get oneitis but would like to convert this girl into a LTMR at least. If not I might even consider going out with this girl exclusively. |