closing dilema

[mr_intense]

here go's.
i have recently moved to london and met a HB8.5 through a friend i met in europe. he brought her out one night and straight away i started working game on her. everything was going well she seemed interested, attraction was there and we were building rapport. circumstances didn't allow things to progress but she suggested we get in catch up again. we switched details and caught up in a couple of group situation where she has befriended my best friends gf. after that her and my friend gf have had a girls night out together.
since then she contacted me and suggested we get together as a group on a friday night. my friend and his gf wanted to stay home so since we live in the same area i suggested coming over hers having some wine and watching a movie. we got wine, watched movie blah blah blah
that time of the night came when things got late and it was freezing outside so she suggested staying over. she brushed her teeth, changed into her pj's and got in bed.
we started spooning and i took this as my cue to advance.
starting telling her she smelled good and rubbing her my hands around her mid-section.
then she said "i don't want it to ruin things"
me "what do you mean?"
her "i like being friends your friends gf and don't want to things to get weird"
me "um okay" but continued to spoon and she didn't seem bothered by it.
after that i pulled away and she moved over and cuddled up to me some more.
this happened last friday and since then she has messaged me a few times with small talk.
what should i have done in this situation? just gone caveman on her and starting kissing anyway? have i missed the opportunity by involving my friends gf? if not what should i do next

any feedback would be greatly appreciated, cheers

[dimetrius]

she suggested staying over

you know what that means, don't you?

it's obvious that she's interested, but then her anti slut defense kicks in, and what you have to do, is to guide her through it.

so she says: "i don't want it to ruin things"
you say: "don't worry, it's not gonna be in the newspapers " and continue with what you were doing. the key point is, to be in control of the situation.

so there's gonna be a point when you'll kiss her.
when you're in bed with a girl, and you two lie spooned, it's not the best position to start kissing. so tell her that she turns to you, look deeply into her eyes and move in. if she doesn't change her bodylanguage you can kiss her, if she changes her bodylanguage (for example turns her head away) don't worry, just build more comfort and try later.

so to sum that up, in such situations you should escalate. don't be afraid doing it and don't wait till she does it.

peace