A "Rookie" in "The Game"

[Mr H]

I'm currently reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss, and well heres what might be a problem. About 2wks ago, I nailed this chic twice in that time, and shes about 10yrs younger. Well recently I started doing the caress and kiss on her whole body slowly undressing her. She gently ask why I was single, I told her that I was in a awkward part of my life where I did not want strings. I only said that because shes in a "serious" relationship. As I finally started working the pj's bottoms off, she jumped and said she needed to smoke a cigarette. So as she tried to regain her composure and light the thing, I continued. She stopped me again this time pulling the covers over up to her neck. I mentioned to her that if we stop, thats it, I was not going to continue. So she said, "Well I guess we'll just have to pick it up some other time." I responded, "If there IS another time", followed by a sly grin. So I got up, grabbed my shoes, got my coat, kissed her on her neck and ear lobe, followed by a 5sec. kiss which I broke off to give her that "wanting more" feeling. What I did noticed was that when I was kneeling between her legs getting ready to pull the pj's off. I picked up this strange odor of not so fresh coming from her crouch...lol. Which kind of surprised me, due to the fact that this was the first time I have ever picked up this stench from her, period (No not the monthly bill either). So as I drove home I started to contemplate whether she was self conscience about her freshness or was she trying to get Me to be needy by stopping the whole thing. I told myself that I was not going to call her first, just so that the feeling of ecstasy would drive her into calling me first. I guess my problem is, am I on the right track or not.

The following day I was on a long distance call when she called to see what I was up to. I politely mentioned to her that I was on a long distance call and that I would call her back. She then quickly rebuttaled and ask if she can use the computer that I left for her to use in the first place. So I told her she could and when we parted, I went on with my previous call. Personally, I figured at the end of all calls that she didn't want me to call back b/c she quickly came back to ask about the computer, like to get it over with. So I refrained from doing so. I bet I was wrong, she probably needed to use it for something important.

I decided to kick the habit and do some more field work .

[Recluse]

Hmm, I'm no expert, but perhaps you took it too harsh with her, especially since she's so much younger. I kind of got stuck in a similar situation and girls always take their personal hygiene very seriously (I made a stupid joke about it and she was extremely displeased). You did the right thing by stopping to avoid LMR, but in that scenario, I don't think anything you would have done could have changed the fact she wasn't ready for sex.

[__The_Raven__]

I'm going to go with the "not so fresh" idea. I think she was self-conscious that it smelled bad down there and she didnt want you exposed to it.

I dont think she was ready. Next time, take a shower with her. That should get rid of her self-consciousness AND its erotic. Try it out. Worse comes to worse, there are plenty more out there.

Game on.

--Raven