Big fuck up

[Raid]

Hi Guys, new to the forum. Name's Raid. Been out of the game for a while due to long term relationship. The following story will illustratejust how out of the game i have become, in fact, i feel like no game at all!

There's this chick who is interested in me and actually asked me out. I did not have to approach or number close her, she did it all for me. I have only seen her once and that ended with just a kiss on the cheek. However, we have been texting and talking and expressing our interest in each other.

One night she finished work and i picked her up and took her back to my place. She said she was nervous and anxious due to what has been said over the phone and texts. I was nervous as well as i have not done this for a while.

To cut a long story short, i fucking completely fucked up and just fucking froze. I did not make any good conversation, let alone make any moves on her. The whole fucking night had no chemistry whatsover, it was as flat as a thumbtack.

Anyway, after some lame conversation, i took her home. She seemed to be fine on the drive home, gave her a kiss on the cheek, which by the way she offered, and we arranged to meet the next night, and she said she would text me once she got to the meeting place.

Guess what? She never textd me and i did not hear from her for the next six days! She said that she was trying to sort her life out and the last thing she needs is a man! She just went from really interested to pretty much telling me to get lost.

Do you think me not making a move on her was the reason she is now ignoring me? I feel that way and I know i won't make the same mistake again.

Now players, how do i get her interested again? Is it possible to get her interested again? I know that presented with the same opportunity, i won't fuck up like that. I just need to have another crack at the pussy. Any suggestions/advice would be welcome. This chick is fucking hot! Please players, help!

[ebolavac]

Well, you showed YOU weren't interested. How the heck else is she supposed to react?

Make your mind up, man. If you're interested in her, show it! Engage her in conversation. Tell her funny stories. Drag her in the kitchen with you, have a glass of wine and chat her up! Get her to open up to you. Ask her about past relationships. Ask her what she wants out of life. Ask her how she feels about the Treaty of Ghent. But for the love of god, keep the conversation going!

I think you torpedoed this one. It may not be resusitatable.

[Raid]

But heres the thing, i am interested in her and she knows it. I just fucked up, so maybe she thinks im a dud. I have been texting her though and she been repllying. Thanks for ur comments anyway.

[Local Celebrity]

Ah man, it's simple. Text her, and say "I have something special to tell you, get back to me quick."

She'll text you back, say you want to tell her face to face because it'll be better. Meet her, then take her back to your place. When you get there, sit her down, and say, okay you ready? Then when she goes 'yeah', just go 'oh, okay' and don't say anything. LOL. Keep asking her if she's ready, then act like you're about to tell her, and then ask a question like, "do you think this shirt makes me look fat?" She'll end up bugging you to tell her, and eventually, you will.

Say, "first there's two parts. The first one: Look, my bad for (whenever you hung out last), I had an off day, and just wasn't really in the mood to have fun, you know how those are. The second thing though,..." (it's risky, but you gotta figure that you lost her anyway) Look right in her eyes and say "I want you" keep looking her in the eyes, and then give a little smirk.

This will catch her off guard. And you just might end up having one of the greatest nights of your life.

But I know what you're thinking, what if it doesn't work? Let me tell you, if she reacts bad, grab her by the hand, walk her to the door, and kick her out.

Trust me.

[Raid]

Local celebrity, u legend man. Gonna give that one a go! Thanks!

[DeadEyeDick]

Work the model. I don't see where you built enough comfort to move to seduction. That would explain why it's not moving ahead smoothly.

Read Magic Bullets -- and read the Forum sections on each phase of the Emotional Progression Model. There's no point in escalating physically without comfort in place ... and it follows attraction and qualification, so you may want to cycle back through those and rebuild this thing.

This is the definitive work on pickup and dating theory, written by an acknowledged master of the game - a guy who’s TRAINED many of the new “gurus” on the scene!

[Raid]

Deadeyedick, good advice. Going through the EPM now. Like i said, been out of the game for a long time, so really rusty. Thanks for the help guys.

[Raid]

Guys, thanks for the advice but i have been texting this girl for the last two weeks and only got a reply once. Fuck her, im not going to chase her espcially since i can get other girls. MLTR is what im gonna go for which is sort of what im doing anyway, its just that this girl, i thought was special. But she is just another vagina, nothing special really. I am special, not her. It is a privelege for girls to be with me, not the other way around. Fuck one- itis, not for me. Cheers!