She is coming back, how do I transition? HELP! - The Attraction Forums

euphoria1681 · #1 (**permalink**) 10-19-2007, 09:07 AM

First of all, thanks in advance for the help.
I dated this 21 year old HB8 for 4 months (Feb07 - May07)
During these three months, I had a very little game.
I made out with her, by end of first month.. thats the most physical I ever got with her ( had a HUGE LMR).....so I kinda hesitated getting her back in my apartment again... By the way she is virgin ( I know for sure)
I never tried to get in touch with her, after we broke up.
After 2 months of break up, we met again.. had lunch and managed to get her to my place, after a little comfort when I tried to kiss her.. she goes " But I thought we are friends now"

I never emailed/texted/ talked to her after that. If I saw her.. ignored her.
I am a part of social network group, where I see her once a week , every week.
I potrayed her very clearly that I don't need her and have good social life. I met with other attractive females, made friends with lot other guys and gotten appreciated for various achievements and some other major DHV that see saw.
After 3 months ,
Now, I am getting some IOI's from her in form of myspace messages and text messages. She even comes up to me ..says " hi/ hello" etc .. Initially I ignored her but now I reply back..only 'Hi'.. thats it. I've also observed her giving me sneak looks from across the room.

I do want to date her cuz I always liked her personality.
My question is Do I have to start all the way from Attraction?
how do I take this to F Close.?
Should I still keep avoiding her?

euphoria1681 · #2 (**permalink**) 10-22-2007, 07:08 AM

I am still waiting for you guys to help me out here.. ...!

__The_Raven__ · #3 (**permalink**) 10-22-2007, 07:37 AM

Ok this is a possible one-itis thread. Why is it in the seduction forum by the way?

Dude, she moved on since the breakup. The reason why shes looking at you is because you're blatantly ignoring her and she doesnt want to be on bad terms with you. You guys are friends now.

Shes an HB8. Use her as a pivot/social proof on your journey to go fuck 10 other women. Catch my drift?

Game on.

--Raven

euphoria1681 · #4 (**permalink**) 10-24-2007, 11:10 AM

Thanks Raven.. I get what what you are saying.... Anything I ask after this, I may sound a desperate loser .....I know some of us have gotten back what they almost lost... and if I have lost it then. F&*% it anyways.... but I am gonna make my last move to comfort & seduce her and post my report here....Any advice on my last move is highly appreciated..