This is something I used when I lost my virginity, and I remembered it while back and have done this to 2 girls so far and it was great and happend much like that time. I dunno if it's going to work for you cuz I have very specific things going on. And the LMR point comes before the intercourse...
Basically, I hold off on kissing them on the lips until seduction while doing all other
kino. Kissing them on the cheek, forehead I do though. I don't know why... But I feel more comfortable this way and maybe it increases anticipation?
So we'd be chilling on the bed, and we'd be talking/watching TV while holding each other with the lights dimmed. And then I act like I am feeling "stuffy". Which I do feel. So I take off my shirt and touching ensues... Then my pants come off and further touching ensues... Basically to hand job. Then I start kissing her neck, shoulders, take off her shirt.... This is when I get my LMR...
What I do here is go, "it's okay~~~~" Now, this is done very whispery and with such a sensitive expression. If I talked like this normally, I would come off as very gentle, shy, push over guy... Kind of like that. When I say this, I kiss them on the lips... Do this for a while, and then I go back to the breasts and they're well aroused by now... I explore their body and fingering and eating it happens... And all three times... They've asked me to fuck them after a while of fingering them.