Hello everyone, I need some help or tips if anyone wants to help me. Here is my story.
I met a girl a couple of weeks ago. I opened a two set and built my attraction. I threw out NEGS, made my DHV high, the whole nine yards. We hit it off immediately, and in the same night I was building comfort. The first week or so we hanged out a lot, where each time I built up her comfort levels even more. By the second week, we were making out, holding hands, and seeing a lot of each other.
Now I started building seduction, and one night after going to the bars, she came back to my place and stayed the night. I probably could have had sex with her that night, but didn’t because I felt that our comfort levels weren’t built high enough. She actually complimented me on not trying to take advantage of her, since guys have done that to her in the past. We just made out, got naked and had a good time.
Sounds great right…the last week or so, it has been in decline. There would be days when she would never call me or text, and I would get jealous, or be the first one to text. I learned quickly that this was making me look needy, and was lowering my S and R value in her eyes. I seriously felt like I was going down the path to LJBF. So now I take an approach of letting her call me first. Sure enough if I go a day without contacting her first, she will eventually call me. I guess what the problem is I am not sure where to go from here. Because I don’t see her that often (she works and schools full time), it’s hard for me to take this anywhere. When I haven’t seen her in awhile, I feel like I need to keep building comfort when I do see her, and then wonder if I’ll ever get a chance to try seduction again.
Should I still throw negs? Should I throw in a
jealousy plotline? Last time we went to the bars (I met her there) I would pay more attention to her friends, which would lead her to keep coming by me. I would neg her, and then later IOI her, and the night went good. Should I keep doing this? Any help or tips would be great! The one advantage of this is since I am not in a sexual relationship with her (yet), I have been continuing to work on my game with other girls!!! And though it may sound cliché I don’t want to throw this one out the door just yet. Or at least let me learn from my mistakes.