help needed! fucked up? or good "start" ?

[Topcat18]

hey people,
i've got a little problem here:

ive met this girl from a dutch kinda - myspace, she was on the same high school for 1 year, we didnt met though. So we talked a little via messages on myspace, and i went to the club the other day, i saw her, but didnt go to her. ( no big deal)
so the day after i messaged that ive seen her and bla bla. the other day i went to the gym and boom..she's there. actually thats the first "official" time we've met, in person. we talked a little bla bla..she seemed to have fun etc. then we went home, she gave me a ride on her cycle to the busstop. and that night we talked a little on chat. 2days after that she messaged me, she asked when i was going to the gym again.. i couldnt go, ( injury) so i said im not going for a while, we should meet again ( not in the gym). She said : thursday and friday im off.so.. she gave her number( i did not even had to ask)

SO HERE'S THE DEAL:
i textmessaged her today: hey, come by today, let me know when en where xx

she replied that she had worked out so she was about to go home and shower, i replied with: okej, you do that, and call me around 4:15 PM
she didnt call, so after a while i messaged her: i assume you're not coming 2day because you didnt call? My time is important to me. so you cant just not-call.

thats all for now..what next.,, im stuck..its a bit fcuked up to let her go, because everything seemed to go the good way, but now...
suggestions for next move????????????????
thanks in advance

topcat

[TheBigBad]

There was another post here like this....

Man, if you get ditched, bailed on, stood up whatever...The worst thing to do is throw a hissy fit and call her out.

If you have to call her out....wait until the next time you see her. And then playfully give her shit. Thought I wouldn't even do that.

[skyliner]

so wot if she didn't call ?!
give her some time and she'll come to you.....probs she's busy and forgot.
but no probs just forget bout that time, ask her, hey do you wana met up dis weekend ?! or leave her to contact you instead. (that's if you can wait)
'My time is important to me. so you cant just not-call.' wot's that quote about, so wot, ur making such a fuss about it! just meet up and go somewhere. she gave you her num so, just wait. don't push and hurry things about you can't this and that. ask her for the next time you two can meet up ? patience is the key ! gd luck

[Topcat18]

thnx 4 your replies, but i've solved this today, she had problems at home. she was online today, and i said:" ? " ( yes, only that.)
and she was like: yes, please dont say anything.. i've had some problems at home, i'd rather not talk about it, but that doesnt mean that i couldnt call you i know, but i just couldnt at the moment, and yes, i could have text messaged you. but i didnt, im sorry for that.

today we met, was fun, a lot of kino..so everything is going good.

topcat

[MetalBlade]

Hey topcat! Hope things are looking better. I did the same thing with a girl, and what I learned is if you keep calling and texting her, you will come off as being needy. This lowers your S and R value to her. If she doesn't call you back, don't worry. Chances are something went wrong, like her family problems. Good luck!