I ordered this documentary online as soon as I read this thread. I received it extremely quick and just watched it last night.
My overall impression, as with many indie documentaries, is that it showed great promise, but a bit more foresight could have resulted in a much more well-executed film.
First off, documentary filmmaking and pickup are both huge areas of interest for me and I give the filmmakers my respect for putting this project together, because with all the differing methods and schools of thought, it must have been a task to not only attempt to give the viewer a broad overview of the community, but also keep them entertained.
I have given serious thought to making a documentary on this topic myself, though I realize it will be tough for anyone to keep footage up-to-date because of the ever-changing discoveries and innovations of "the game." The film did seem a bit dated to me, for several reasons ($1200
workshops, early-to-mid-90s fashion, heavy emphasis on peacocking accessories, etc.).
I really liked the way they followed Andy, one of the film's primary characters, and showed him taking his first
workshop and seeing the beginnings of his transformation. Having taken my first
bootcamp last year, I can relate to him in several respects and very much enjoyed that aspect of the film. But I wanted to see a deeper view of his story and those of more average joes like him. That would have been much more compelling viewing, in my opinion.
Instead, most of the film is spent explaining (and defending), through the words of gurus and enthusiasts, what the community is about. Interspersed throughout are thoughts of random women whose (mostly uninformed) opinions are solicited. While PUAs and aPUAs may find some of their thoughts frustrating, I think this was a very necessary component to making an honest film on PU.
But three-quarters of the way through the film, I still didn't have the impression that the uninitiated viewer would be won over by the PUAs' arguments that the community is a GOOD thing. In fact, if most viewers left the film feeling pickup was a sham, I honestly couldn't blame them based on what little life-changing positivity was portrayed in the film. This isn't the fault of the PUAs so much as an unforseen deficiency with the film.
I would have liked to have seen more examples of what great (or even not-so-good) things can come from one's involvement in the PU community, instead of having it explained to me primarily by PUAs who are selling
workshops. It' s a case of don't TELL me, SHOW ME. There wasn't enough of that, in my humble opinion.
In the end, despite its shortcomings, I'm glad a documentary on this subject was finally made and it gives me great inspiration to create my own documentary on the topic.
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