Day Game Products - The Attraction Forums

methodica · #1 (**permalink**) 04-16-2008, 12:11 PM

Hi guys, I'm new to this forum and to day game so i was hoping to get a few reccomendations on what day game products are out there and are good. I've heard Sinn, Badboy, and Lance Mason and pickup101 is really good to learn day game from. Anything you guys would reccomend, like e-books, dvds, etc. Right now I'm using some stuff from Grungey10 and Captivate to Connect which is good stuff but it never hurts to expand your horizons. i'm also having a hard time getting girls on second dates, any tips?

londonsoul · #2 (**permalink**) 04-17-2008, 05:34 AM

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i'm also having a hard time getting girls on second dates, any tips?

You need to build loads of comfort man. Don't just meet a girl in the day time, take a number and eject.

Stay with her for as long as you can (if she is interested of course), ideally take her on an instant-date there and then.

Definitely, definitely MOVE with her somewhere, even if you just walk down the street with her for 100 metres or so. It builds much more comfort and makes her remember you better than if you just stood there and took her number.

Soul

methodica · #3 (**permalink**) 04-17-2008, 10:25 AM

I figured that it was that I needed to build more comfort. i'm a little concerned though that I might build too much comfort and then end up in the dreaded LJBF zone. How do you stay out of this while building lot's of comfort? I usually disqualify to build some tension and attraction while I'm trying to build comfort, is that a good method? Thanks man. I've never heard or love systems but I'm going to check you guys out right now.

londonsoul · #4 (**permalink**) 04-17-2008, 04:57 PM

Lol, I'm sure we should we having this discussion outside of this section, in fact, prob a good idea to do searches on "escalation" and "comfort" and "LJBF".

But basically, to sum it up mate, guys normally get LJBFed because they don't a) build attraction, and/or b) ESCALATE.

So do your attraction, build your comfort, just make you smoothly escalate throughout. If you never take the risk to escalate, then yes all your comfort will go to waste.

FYI escalating is always a risk (just like approaching), that's what makes it so much fun

Soul