
Sticking Point? Help? I D know!
To just describe one situation; Today I was at a local clothing store (where usually hot girls work), and I have to go in because they fix the watch I bought from them.
A little about me; Where ever I go I’m usually sarging, almost anyone, men, women, old or young people, attractive or not and its helping me socially… People seem to be magnetized to me and I’ve been excelling in business and school.
So I come in and when I get to the counter a girl approaches me (ill call her 1), and asks how I’m doing. I take this as an opener, so I give her a bit and neg her. She comes around the counter to help me as I start telling her about my day (story time). As she gets involved in what I’m saying she gets her friend to come over and help her fix my watch (ill call her 2). So 1 is HB 7 and 2 is a HB 7.5. During my routine I shut out 2 (my target) and give the beautiful girl routine (so many hb’s its about the inside)… 2 starts nodding her head and obvious IOI and 1 is hanging on every word still. I ask 1 about what shes doing in college, show them a magic trick (that didn’t work, they still laughed) another IOI.
Eventually I give 2 the I bet people think you’re a bitch routine (then tell her behind that she’s a great person)… I’ve been negging 2 the whole time (so this is my first complement to her)… She takes it and 1 gets bothered by what I said… so I give 1 more attention and shut 2 out again. Made more story and then the time came and 2 had finished fixing my watch.
This is where I’m stuck maybe… I talk to them for another moment (I really wanted to number close!) but for some reason I just said my peace gave another visual joke and said good bye. When I was walking away, I said “damn” to myself for not getting a number…
This keeps happening, it’s the only part that I don’t get… I want to get a number, I’d like to build relationships, call people, build a
social circle, etc.
Thus far I’ve only number closed an ex girl friend (from 8 years ago)…
Sincerely,
GumShoe
