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Old 08-27-2008, 08:01 AM
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Default how to make it just casual?

started to see a girl, F-closed her last night and shes coming back for more, unsure if i can make a permanant thing, how can i make sure she realises this with out hurting her?
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There are different types of non-monogamous relationships. I would read the Relationship Management section of Magic Bullets.
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Make it less frequent and see if she keeps coming back.
Depends on the girl, some you can ask directly, others you should never ask and just let it flow into casual.
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1.Tell her you're busy for a few days, show her that you don't NEED her. That she's just another girl to you right now, you want or don't want her to be a relationship.

2.She has no idea what you want, but shes doing everything she can in her interests, be that a relationship or casual sex. One way or another you have a week or two of dating before she begins to wonder what you guys are officially.

3.Keep fucking her, and if she ever tries to tell you how "amazing" you are, and how much of a connection you guys have....simply reply with funny non-committing answers like "you're fun" or "I guess you're okay (with a wink)"

4.When she gets down and dirty and says "I want a relationship. Now." Just say "I don't. I like what we have, and I am not in a phase where I want to be tied down in my life. I like spending time with you, but I just met you. If that doesn't sound like your cup of tea, well then you'd better leave, because I'm not changing my mind"

Push her out the door, and she will never leave :-P even if she doesn't get a relationship.

Worked like a charm for me last month.
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