Is she pulling out the jealousy card? what should i do?

[CMoney15]

I really don't care if she goes out with friends and guys just come up and hit on her and buy drinks. I know that just comes with the territory and its going to happen. I just thought it was kind of annoying and immature when I thought she said she was going out LOOKING for attention. Because when I thought that, maybe it is an inner game issue I dunno, but I felt like maybe I was doing something wrong and felt like less of a man i guess. But come to find out that wasn't the case tho she made it sound like that.

Why do I care u ask??? I dunno - she tells me she doesn't do X Y and Z but she DID X Y and Z with me. (maybe I'm just that good and was the exception.. jk) But she tells me she doesn't go out and randomly make out with guys at bars, doesn't go home with guys at the end of the night, and won't cheat.) Even though we started being friends awhile back the first time a bunch of us went out to a bar she made out with me, THEN proceeded to try and get back to come back to her place( X & Y ). and then a year down the road, even though she was getting ready to break up with her current ex boyfriend she cheated on him with me the week before she broke up with him (Z)... I do know that was the first time she ever cheated though. I do know for a fact that she's had a "weakness" for me the past year and a half. thats what she said to me and thats what her friends have said also....so maybe I am the exception. but because of that I kinda have a hard time trusting that I guess.

[TrueStory]

Suggest she should go on a date with some of these guys; tell her you want steak and fries.

She can get salad and steak and fries, eat her salad and take steak and fries home to you, in to-go box. Of course, on guys' tab.

[jiggatycoon]

I would be legitimately leery of a girl who cheated on her last bf with me.

You can rationalize for her all you want and say she was breaking up with him anyway or you were just 'that good,' but come on. Be serious. There IS something up with a girl who you know has cheated. If she'll do it with you, she'll eventually do it to you.

Just don't be shocked or anything. I frankly can't ever picture myself marrying or even getting serious with a girl that had a bf when I met her/started hooking up with her.

[CMoney15]

by all means I'm not trying to rationalize haha. I brought that up because I didn't know from other peoples experience if it really did matter even though she was about to break up with him.

Thats what makes ME leery about the situation....regardless if I am the exception or not she did it anyways which means anyone else could be the exception as well. I'm gonna play it light with her.