I hate my girlfriends bestfriend!

lucaluca · #1 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 06:04 PM

so basically I hate by girlfriends bestfriend.
She's a straight up slut.
she's insecure as fuck!
She's got a loud mouth and acts hot shit. She gets extremly pissed off when my girlfriend hangs out with me or talks to me on the phone for a few minutes. She will yell " make that fucking hoe hang up" "hang the fuck up stalker" she basically just yells in the backround the whole time. The worst thing aBout this is that my girlfriend will just laugh and think that she shouldn't be talking me while she's with her friends. This is because her bestfriend use to talk all day to her boyfriend when they were together.
My girlfriend also tries to look like a good role model for her bestfriend because her bestfriends is an insecure hoe whose controlled by a bunch if guys. Her bestfriend doesn't even know me and her have really strong feelings for each other. Basically her bestfriend is a controlling bitch. My girlfriends recently has been calling me controlling because I've been getting pissed off about her bestfriend.

Ive tried being nice to her for about 7 months we seemed fine. Though now its bullshit because I left schools so now she thinks she can be all bad ass.
I really don't know what to do. I'd like to get control of this situation and have my girlfriend stand up for us more and not take shit from her friend. ( she doesn't take personal disrespect but she let's all this shit happen).

Any advice maybe friend destroyers?

Another problem I've been having is my that my girlfrind has been treating me poorly over the phone.. In person she's 150% affection but over the phone shea been disrepectful. I don't want to make my girlfriend my bitch or nothing but I'd like to have a bit more control. She has a rebelious attitude so I'd like to get past that somehow. I want her to be always happy to hear from me.

TrueStory · #2 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 06:40 PM

Build comfort with her best friend if she is such a strong influence on your girlfriend.

orgasmatron · #3 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 06:47 PM

LucaLuca,

When ever you get a cockblock or this Bullshit test from her friend. You must put her ass in check immediately!!!

You must be a man and you will not be disrespected by her "HO" friend. Fuck That!

You let her get away with shit for 7 months now... but now you know what to do next time a bitch misbehaves like that.

Happy Hunting!

-Orgasmatron

smilenbseen · #4 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 09:33 PM

I've had the same thing happen many times. I just tell my GF at the time that I hate the fat bitch she's friends with, cuz if she was hot I'm sure I could put up with her so she has to be a fat bitch. Then say I don't want to spend time with my gf when she is around, if a fat bitch comes before you then you have bigger problems.

lucaluca · #5 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by TrueStory

Build comfort with her best friend if she is such a strong influence on your girlfriend.

ive tried this she use to always ask for my opinion on shit we've talked a lot and now that ive moved away a bit she thinks she has got my girlfriend to herself or some shit.

lucaluca · #6 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by orgasmatron

LucaLuca,

When ever you get a cockblock or this Bullshit test from her friend. You must put her ass in check immediately!!!

You must be a man and you will not be disrespected by her "HO" friend. Fuck That!

You let her get away with shit for 7 months now... but now you know what to do next time a bitch misbehaves like that.

Happy Hunting!

-Orgasmatron

She was fine the first 7 months beecause we all went to the same college so she couldn't do shit. Now that my girlfriend and her hang out everyday she thinks she's all in control. I don't really know how to get back I usually try to remain uneffected or tell my girlfriend I'll call her later because I don't appreciate her friend talking to me like that. It sucks my girlfriend just does nothing about it. She just laughs and finds her friend to be hilarious.

lucaluca · #7 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by smilenbseen

I've had the same thing happen many times. I just tell my GF at the time that I hate the fat bitch she's friends with, cuz if she was hot I'm sure I could put up with her so she has to be a fat bitch. Then say I don't want to spend time with my gf when she is around, if a fat bitch comes before you then you have bigger problems.

haha ive actually told her I hate her insecure ugly ass friend once when I was pissed off. I don't want to do that to much became she will just get mad that I'm alkong about her friend in such a bad way.

AlexC · #8 (**permalink**) 08-23-2008, 12:12 AM

Is not important how to deal with her, but to understand the real reason WHY she acts that way. After you find out, a solution is rather easy to find. Maybe she just needs a good fuck, or you remind her of an ex who used to ignore her all the time. Find out WHY, not how.

TheRogue · #9 (**permalink**) 08-23-2008, 01:21 AM

Dude, next time you hear the bitch yelling, just tell your gf to call you back when she's not around and hang up. She'll get the hint eventually.

Rogue

sdnightfly · #10 (**permalink**) 08-23-2008, 07:13 PM

But her friend does sound like the one controlling the friendship and has a huge issue of you with her.

The part about her "not talking to me because she's with her friends".. if it's just a few minutes and her best friend is trying to get her off the phone.. it all depends on how much you're talking to her while she's with them. That can get annoying.

It sounds like it's because summer is here and they have limited time together, but I don't get why you and her have to be separate when she's with her friends the entire summer.

Your gf has 2 controlling people in her life, her best friend and you. Her best friend is going to be obnoxious and confrontational with you. Being nice, she'll walk all over you. Being too mean, she'll validate that you're controlling and talk her out of seeing you.

And here's something to think about - who is your gf confiding more in, you or her?

It's a problem when the gf is keeping you out of the picture and hanging out with her best friend, but like I said, if it's due to being out of school, they want to spend as much time together as possible.

I'd just tell the gf to have a good time and not to worry about me. To me, this best friend is taking up time that your gf should be spending with you.

The ultimate friend destroyer is if you f-closed the best friend.