Getting mixed messages from old friend

[AlexC]

I know this girl for about 2 years. We didn't keep in contact that much, only occasional YM chat about our lives and stuff. Last winter I even had an attempt with her, but failed due to parallel relationship that I mentioned her about, lack of game from my part (I was just throwing random routines I had learned every time the conversation was stalling), and limiting beliefs from her part towards sex. Her dad was very strict, didn't even let her go out and have a beer with her friends, girl friends...the boys were out of the question. School, library, market and different book fairs open in town, those were the places she was allowed to go. Since always I've been very flirty with her and she was giving me IOI's, flirting back...A few days ago she told me that's just her, how she is around ppl, although at some gatherings she managed to come, she was very quiet and shy.

I was talking to her today on ym and i tried some NLP relaxation patterns in the chat screen. I have a good feeling that somehow they worked, cause her answers were like "shut up, stop it..: ( ( " and even I was about to relax just from writing it ;P. Anyway, she wants to have a drink hext week on her day off.

What should I understand from all this? I'm a bit confused about this girls intentions, even my best girl friend thought that the target was hitting on me after she saw the YM transcripts. Waiting for your suggestions. Thanks