i want my gf to loose weight

[trix8]

i have been dating her for about half a year now and shes been getting bigger since weve been dating. i dont wanna b a dick but i do want her to loose some weight. anybody got some suggestions on how i should frame it or what i could telll her plz...

[BigDuke6]

Get her to take walks with you. Anything over 40 minutes burns fat. BTW, I'm positive you know this, but it's "lose", not "loose".

[masterH]

If she is obviously overweight and she is self-conscious about it, just by saying 'let's go to gym together' can make her feel bad.

I am meeting this woman who wears size 2 but got some belly. I just told her 'you need to go to gym to get rid of this' by pinching her belly. of course she got little upset but got a gym membership I could do this way cuz obviously, she is not fat in average person's view.
I persuaded her by saying 'this would be good for you whether we are together or not, wouldn't you be happier if I go to gym and get better body'

If you are fit guy and she is kinda overweight person, it is fair for you to ask that.
If she wouldn't care if you sit around the house and get fat like her, then I don't know what to say

[sampanye]

For god's sake don't tell her to lose weight! ALWAYS address it as a healthy lifestyle thing rather than a weight-loss issue. If you tell her to lose weight straight out, a lot of girls will rebel subconsciously and actually sabotage themselves as a sort of "fuck you for telling me what I can and can't do to my body."

Look at the way her lifestyle has changed since she's been with you. Is she working a less active job? Has she stopped exercising? Do you two go out for dinner together or go out drinking together? Address these things by suggesting you two go for a walk together, choosing healthier restaurants or cooking at home, that sort of thing.

[redhead]

DUDE NEVER TELL HER TO LOSE WEIGHT! just take her to gym, walk, and healthier food such subway etc. Just keep positive.

[smilenbseen]

I disagree with everyone so far, I'm dating a girl right now who is a size zero but has a pouch that doesn't go well with her body. She wants to go on a cruise or vacation soon and I said I won't go anywhere with her unless she loses the belly. I've told many girls I've dated they needed to lose weight, I try not to do it bluntly sometimes joking around. In the end if you try and get her to go to the gym with you or hint around she'll catch on so just be honest. I generally mention this when I first start dating a girl too, I usually throw it out like this. I love traveling around the world and hate how nasty Americans are letting themselves go and getting fat, it is important to me to be in shape and just as much my partner. Then if she starts to put on a couple I can be like didn't you agree with me before you need to diet. Although I expect the same in return if I start to chub it up.

[Peter_Pan]

you prob know her well enough to do it directly or indirectly

i was in a relationship and she was putting on weight but i was too and she was often complaining about her own weight, so it wasnt that hard for me, I just told her that i am sick of being unfit and am joining the gym and then she said she would go with me.

I guess if you do go for the indirect approach like i did and she doesnt want to go with you then you have 2 choices.....love her for who she is not for what she looks like, or.....Next.

Personally it was bothering me because i was finding my self no longer attracted to her, and a sexless relationship can be rough